How long is too long to wait for an engagement? I've been with this man for 3-4 years we have a 3…

@021715, let him know that u want to be a wife nothing more nothing less tell him how u feel

I swear I'm on the same shit! been with this man almost 5 yrs lived together for 2 and have a 4 month old.... and NOTHING 😡😡 is like really?! Wtf are we doing here??? Cuz I'm ready for the next step..

exactly like what's going on ? I'm not saying we have to get married right away but let me know I mean something to you and I'm not just "wifey" or "my girl" ... they get too comfortable @mdomke22

I started dating my best friend last July, we got engaged in September, I moved in in November, we got married in December and found out I was pregnant in February. But it's rare to find a man that knows exactly what he wants and act on it the way mine did. I'm still in shock everything happened so quickly. Just talk to him!!!

I've been with my man 5 + yrs still no engagement. for me this year is it or its a deal breaker. especially since we have our daughter now.

My hubby and I dated for a year and a half, engaged for 1 year, now married almost 2.

in my opinion, and from my experience. men will propose if they really want to marry you if they don't then they're just going through the motions. I was with my daughters father for 51/2 years we were engaged for 3 1/2 of those years. we were never going to get married and I knew it. my husband now wanted to marry me and he did, before we got pregnant. we were Married 9 months after we started dating.

@021715,

You have to ask him what's up ?! Men know if they want to marry you . Me & my BF have been together less than a year and I'm 18weeks pregnant but we are getting married in January . We don't live together either . I don't want him getting comfortable getting husband treatment and he's still a BF .