@octoberbaby2012, thanks.

Wow am so sorry that you have to go though this! May God give your strength!

@dessie0621, @erikaandelijah wow, so i told his mom that he doesnt want to be involved in the babys life and that i hope it doesnt affect her involvement. she already told me she wants to be grandma no matter what him and I are, but i wanted her to atleast know whats going on. well i guess she talked to him. he texted me to not talk to his mom, haha, she. is my babys grandma and be thinks he can just tell me not to talk to her.

hey, don't worry about his ass. it's better that his dumb ass leaves than have that attitude when he's around you or the baby. watch karma will bite him on the ass.

I was put in the same role as my mother she had my brother at 21 and our dad pretty much didn't exist. I just had my son and turned 21. Almost like looking in a mirror. That's what makes it harder for me.

@expecting2015, @dessie0621 my dad won't change his mind. he was happy once he didnt have to pay child support nor have to take me to visit him. he lives 6 hours away, so its easy for him to just ignore the fact that i am his daughter.
im hoping my babys dad is h
just gsoing through a phase and grows the hell up before she is here...

That's so horrible! I hope someone steps up and changed their mind sooner rather than later!

@ezmyyluvzu,

That's how my dad is . He told me he didn't want anything to do with me or baby and I'm ruining my life lol (what a dick) you can still be successful with a kid. I think your dad will come around when baby is born , hopefully mine too

@dessie0621, i think what hurts more is that my dad doesnt wanna be grandpa, his dad just passed away and now he doesnt wanna be dad. so she has no grandpa's nor a dad now...

@harata87, thanks, my mom also raised me as a single parent. but i know my dad and visited him. so its a new experience for me for my child to not even see her dad..

:) @expecting2015

I agree with @mamas_mia

He sounds terrible sweetheart. My sons dad told me if I can't provide him with things he needs how can he help me with my son? Sometimes doing it alone is what's better for you. Less drama and in a way less stress!

@armywife_martinez, yeah. i think its funny how he is the one chickening out from being a parent considering he kept trying to call me immature because I dont drive and because I decided to keep this baby even though he told me it wasnt the right time for a baby. im 18, he is 21..

Bless you mama @harata87

@dessie0621, his girlfriend swears that she has it harder and that I have it easy because he never told me he loved me so you know we never "made love" but them in the other hand "made live because he wanted to marry her and he loved her. Even though the whole time he was talking to her and dating her he was with me. I was told lies from the start, and I was still so nice to him I just wanted him to be there for this precious baby. he supposably bought her a crib and started buying diapers and then all of a sudden doesnt want anything to do with her, like wth???

Hey girls , it's deff not an easy task being a single mom I'm speaking from experience I have been raising my son on my own since they day he was born , he just turned 6 on the 12th . Somedays are harder than others but most of the time I feel so lucky so blessed to be there for every moment !! I get to choose how he is raised , and everyone is amazed at how easy of a child he is calm collected and respectful , you don't have to share them , and most of all your teaching them to be strong individuals, you might not see it all the time but they truly notice the fact that you are always their for them and in the end they love you more . Keep your chin up ladies if someone doesn't want to be apart of your lives its their loss and they don't truly deserve you or the blessing of a child . Never let anyone's actions or behaviors steal your happiness especially when you should be enjoying this .. One day everything will fall into place just focus on you and baby :)

😕 I'm sorry to hear that. But I agree with the women under me.. Clearly he isn't ready, it's better he realizes now rather than a few years down the road when you're use to him being around your child. Just remember that is YOUR child, he may be the father but he can never say he was a parent like you will be.

@wyattsmommy91, thanks

I know what you mean. I had a csection and I do everything all by myself. I get tired I've cried but it takes one look in my boys eyes to make everything else fade. My ex doesn't matter anymore. The love between you and your child can't be bought or replaced or anything. It stays with you forever.

Some boys can make babies and leave a women and can care less a part of them is living in this world just remember he is a boy. He did u and ur daughter a favor he saved her and you from.future dissapointment and you don't need him.around you will find a man that will want to give you and your daughter the world look.at it as a blessing in disguise. you are the only thing your baby needs in this world. Keep your head up mama

@expecting2015, yeah, he prefers his little girlfriend over his daughter.. even though his dad passed away he doesnt seem to think she needs her dad.

@dessie0621, im trying so hard to be strong, but its hard feeling so alone..

He's a sad excuse for a father, . You both don't need him he's a ass hole . I know you're hurt please take a deep breath and pray

@mamas_mia, yeah i guess I can look at it that way..

I'm dealing with the same thing Love. Be strong and know who your fighting for! My sons father did the same thing. Eventually curiosity kills the cat.

@armywife_martinez, im trying, i just wish he would atleast try to be a father before making this decision or he could have jept his original decision instead of trying to convince me he wanted to be a dad. like Im about to be i. my 3rd trimester, he couldnt have decided this sooner... he was supposed to be the only one in the delivery room, no i literally have noone to be in the delivery room with me... i feel so alone..

He's doing her a favor by saving her from being subjected by his no good bitch ass. Judging from those messages, he's doin the best thing he could possibly do for her

Smh. That's just sad. I'm so sorry.. But just think of how much more your child will appreciate you when they realize all that you did as a single mother. Just be the best mother/father you can be. Stay positive and good luck!