anyone else just had a baby and scared to have sex again after giving birth ?? don't get me wrong ,…

I was scared I wanted until my 6 week pp check up after I was cleared I was still scared cause I was still sore down there I tore as well had 7 stitches

7 stitches? ? omg o.O did it hurt ?? I'm definitely waiting till the 6 weeks are up or better yet till I get birth control @wyattsmommy91 I think that's another thing I'm worried about..getting pregnant again, I want another kid just not at the moment

After 6 weeks waiting. Had csection sex was hurting worse then virginity. Its still uncomfortable for me especially cant do it every other day like normal people just cause baby always cranky like he knows im not close to him lol

im scared but since im single I dont gotta worry about it for quite some time even after 6 weeks. lol.

The first 4-5 times it hurt like hell it still hurts every now and again but I think its the merina it shifts during at times. Yeah I uses condoms the first couple times until.I got on birth control. that was a big fear also was getting prego again I want my kids to be 4-5 years apart so another baby was not in the mix for me lol.

I had 8 stitches and waited 3 weeks. Most Dr's want you to have sex before the appointment that way you can tell them if it hurt

It was a little painful in the beginning the first time, but now it's just as enjoyable as ever!

Not every Dr suggest u have sex before 6 weeks because your organs have to shift back to normal. My Dr said my no means don't have sex but that's crazy that some suggest it it shows every Dr is different though @mamas_mia

it's gonna be like losing my virginity all over again lol oh Lord @wyattsmommy91 I haven't heard of that my doctor said no sex before six weeks @mamas_mia

ooh yeah that's what it felt like to me. I didn't think.it'd hurt so bad cause I pushed a baby out lol.

how long has it been since you had your baby and does it still hurt ?? I've heard sex doesn't feel the same after having a baby, ever lol -_- @wyattsmommy91

he will be 5 months the 6th of june. it is a little uncomfortable still but it only hurts if my hubby hits the strings to my Merina that's painful but it doesn't feel the same I feel like I'm a lot tighter (I was never loose lol) but I think it feels way better now than before though

lol oh okay thanks ! and speaking about birth control. .how do you like the mirena?? any side effects? @wyattsmommy91

Its okay the only side affects I really had was in the first 3 months I had a period 2xs a month now that my body has gotten used to it I don't but they r longer than what I'm used to hoping that goes away too. And when they instert it they don't cut the strings they wait a month or so and make u come back to do that cause they don't want to cut them to short. Also before the strings got trimmed when my hubby hit it it hurts and when it shifts its uncomfortable but other than that I don't know.its there and I.like the fact I don't have to remember to take a pill every day at the same time cause thats not happening I barely remember to feed my dog lol and the fact it last 5 years sold me.lol

I've been thinking about getting the mirena also and the fact that it lasts for 5 years also has me sold lol and I've heard really good things about it too so I'm really considering it thank you :) @wyattsmommy91

Your welcome. :) Also since you gave birth vaginally they say it's easier to insert cause your utreus is easier to get to. I didn't even feel them but it in lol

lol good to know thanks again! appreciate it