Personally, I grew up when I had my first baby. I changed for the better, and believe me... I had fun before I settled down and tried for a baby. I see some of my friends on Facebook who have new babies, and they talk about needing "weed" and they need a "night out". This kind of bothers me. I know its okay to go have fun once in a while, give yourself a break... but the "smoking weed" and hunting weed on Facebook, and posting pictures of baby all day, I know they smoke in the house with that baby. I don't find that okay. My opinion, of course... Ive had the chance to drink since having my son, but I never end up drinking or "partying" because it makes me feel so guilty, times like that...I'd rather be spending my time with my baby than beer.