Need some advice me and my baby's father are not together but were close friends for our son. We…
Need some advice me and my baby's father are not together but were close friends for our son. We can't be together bc there's always so much fighting and it's not good for the baby... But he's talking to other girls and it really bothers me bc I can't talk to my guy friends bc he gets jealous. But he's been talking to this girl I went to school with and she's been around if u know what I mean and I caught him telling her he loved her and all this bs. I just don't know what to do it's okay for him but even my guy friends try to steer clear of me bc of him. There's parts of me that want to cut off all ties with him but I can't bc of our son... I just can't get him to understand where I'm coming from.... Anybody else been in this situation...
deleted-user·
So why can't you talk to other dudes if you're not together? You must feel a certain way talking to other dudes and trying to keep your bd feelings I consideration I'm guessing.
mommytobrantley·
I do take his feelings in to consideration bc he's the only person that's stood by me....and before I got pregnant we had a rough patch...we was off and on a lot....and I feel like I owe it to him... And I dont want a relationship with any of the dudes I talk to it's just strictly friends...and they know that I'll hVe a baby in the next week and there just bein supportive...but my ex doesn't look at it that way. He looks at it like I'm supposed to keep to my self and stay at home all the time and only talk to him when our son needs something
deleted-user·
@mommytobrantley, ok well if you feel that way continue letting him talk to other women then while you sit home . That's the thing about some women we let time and emotions get in the way so while he's out there telling other people he loves them you're being considerate and not wanting to talk to other friends . So you're making it harder for yourself . Remember you come first because clearly he isn't worrying about your feelings 😔
Samantha·
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don't worry about him. worry about your son. don't worry about the females he talks to either. I know that's hard but at least pretend not to. when he sees you're okay, he'll try to be with you more. at the end of the day. you get to see your son wake up and do everything and that's a better win than anything that he possibly has. you got the best part of that man, his baby.
mommytobrantley·
And I think that's what kills me the most is that he don't care about me it's just the baby an he's afraid if I start seeing them he'll be pushed out of the picture and he thinks I'll take our son away from him. And if never do that. @phasion
deleted-user·
@mommytobrantley, ohhh well you all definitely have to see eye to eye and you tell him you won't do that because you're not that kind of woman . "Our child needs his father I will never push you away if we're together or not. Right now it's not about us it's about our child."
levismama1988·
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I would definetly talk to who I want...if u guys r not together and r not gonna be in the future then he shouldnt dictate who u talk to especially if he's already talking to other girls..I know its important to keep a civil relationship but theres no need in being alone and unhappy for the rest of ur life all because he doesnt want u being with somebody else...he can always be apart of yalls childs life thats will never change but u have to have a life too or u will be unhappy around ur baby and thats not good either...