So I have a slight issue..please don't judge. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20 and I'm 20 weeks…
So I have a slight issue..please don't judge. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20 and I'm 20 weeks pregnant. We plan to get our own place soon.He lives with his dad n I live with my mom. Problem is he isn't telling his dad about the pregnancy because he'll get kicked out. He suppose to be saving money but seems like he really isn't. He has full time job making 10 or more an hour. While I'm on disability n still have more money saved. I try not nag but time is coming closer to birth and I'm freaking out I want best for the baby what am I gonna do n keeps telling me don't worry but we are running out of time :(
Myranda·
you need to sit down and explain what's going on in your mind hun, and if he isn't willing to change his actions to show you he wants what's best, you do whatever it is you need to do for that baby.
Nikita Nance·
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I agree with here. you have to put your baby first and that might involve a hard conversation. but it needs to be done.
babylylasmommy·
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how would I do it alone I need my own place? I don't understand he always wanted a baby with me n if he doesn't blow all his money he can do it he's stalling hard. @nikitasky @myrandaautumn
Nikita Nance·
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Maybe you won't have to do it alone. the conversation could open his eyes and give him the push he needs.
Myranda·
how much is your disability? they have all kinds of opportunities for mother's honey, they have studio apts that are basically one bedrooms that run cheap. you can do it on your own, don't be scared of that
babylylasmommy·
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I get 700 a month . @myrandaautumn and every time I try to tell him he gets frustrated n says don't worry like he has it all figured our @nikitasky
Myranda·
tell him this is something you really need to sit and speak about because of your hormones. and you should be able to do something with that, I'm sure. not much, but something
babylylasmommy·
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I will talk to him just need a back up plan. just sounds weird we gonna be together but live in 2 different households? But I feel like eventually I'm gonna be obvious pregnant n his dad will figure it out so who knows
babylylasmommy·
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@myrandaautumn,