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So my mom is super mad at me for the most ridiculous reason right now. We were discussing my baby shower and people my…

So my mom is super mad at me for the most ridiculous reason right now. We were discussing my baby shower and people my boyfriend and I are inviting and she mentioned someone that she's inviting that I barely even know, let alone can tolerate being around. She got mad and said " So I can't invite my friends?" ... uhmmm.. no because this day isn't about you. It's for my boyfriend and I and our baby.

Now she's not talking to me because she's literally SO mad she wants to put a hole in the wall.. just because she can't invite HER friends to OUR baby shower.. Does anyone else think this is ridiculous or is it just me?

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kimi_ftm

kimi_ftm

She's already been a grandma for 2 years to my nephew.

I just don't get why she would be SO mad she wants to put a hole in the wall. I don't want to be annoyed, stressed or anything during my baby shower and those people irritate me within 5 minutes. She doesn't seem to get that either. She wants to make it all about her. She doesn't even discuss anything with me regarding my baby shower! She just plans them and doesn't ask if I'm okay with it.

jegagurl

Jessica

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I'm not sure if it's worth the fight. I'm sure she's just excited and wants to share the moment with her friends too. Yes you're becoming a mom, but she's also becoming a grandma. To me- the more the merrier. And more gifts! 😉

kimi_ftm

kimi_ftm

Plus, I can't stand to be around these people for more then 5 minutes without getting irritated because they're so annoying!

kimi_ftm

kimi_ftm

Not at all actually. It's not her day. She insists on planning it when I'm perfectly okay with planning it myself or having my sister do it for me. She's tried making everything about her during my pregnancy and it's quite irritating!

kimi_ftm

kimi_ftm

It's ridiculous! She won't even talk to me because of it!

mopace

mopace

Мама двоих (7 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

the more the merrier

deleted-user

deleted-user

If she's planning your shower she should be able to invite who she wants as long as her friends will be showering your baby and don't come empty handed .

nikitasky

Nikita Nance

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I feel like my mom is going to be the same way. I'm kinda trying to hint around the subject so it doesn't go to bad.

kimi_ftm

kimi_ftm

*she is understanding. oops

kimi_ftm

kimi_ftm

She's even mad at my sister too because is understanding!

vondab490

Lyvonda

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (10 нед.)

Yes that is ridiculous.

maliksmommie

Samantha

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I think that's ridiculous. it's a day for you and your baby.

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