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Sorry about that hun and it's great you have support from others. :)

im sorry things did not work . but you can do it . its hard with or without a partner! sounds like u have tons of support which is amazing! ! keep your head up

@preggerstone, @shaysaleen, Thank you, I know it's going to be hard but it will be worth it. Again it was my choice. It would have been harder to stay with him I truly believe. he worked 11p to 7am, that would scare me with how angry he started getting what would happen when he wouldn't be able to sleep cuz one or both boys are crying? I used to have to wake him by poking him with a broom cuz he was ugly to wake up, what would happen if the babies woke him? I don't think I could have lived with myself if anything happened. I know that these babies are a blessing and God will not give me more than I can handle. Yes I can't get over how excited everyone is! I was scared how my church would take it being an unwed mother but they're beyond excited! I only have my parents down here family wise so my church is throwing us a baby shower! I wanna cry everytime I think about how supportive they all are! Always asking how they're doing, making sure I'm ok, and they support my decision with leaving my ex. These are not my parents first grandbabies, this makes grand baby 8 & 9, but I moved back in with them, so they are apart of their lives from the start. My brothers were in the service so we didn't get to see their kids much. and with 2 boys my dad is in heaven lol! he said he'd be happy either was as long as they're happy but with boys he did their nursery and locked the door until he was done, he did it all in Boston Red Sox! we're Boston fans so I love it but he was super excited to do it and couldn't wait to show me lol! and of course my mom is well buying toys and clothes left and right lol!

You got this! Between your parents and the church you are extremely blessed.

@cloughgal, I am extremely blessed! I've always been told I couldn't have kids, and I miscarried once already so these boys are my miracle babies!

I lost a set of twin girls at 13 weeks. After going in for my six week check up I found out I was pregnant again, he is now 14. When I was pregnant with my 17 year old I stayed my entire pregnancy in the hospital on bed rest fighting for both of us to live. I wasn't supposed to have any more after him. When I lost my girls I thought for sure I would never have more but God blessed me with another son, my 14 year old. Now all these years later I am expecting my third son around October 3rd. I lost my husband on our youngest sons birthday almost three years ago. I am engaged now to a man who lost his wife a year before my husband had passed away. Neither of us were supposed to be able to conceive due to medical issues. He has two daughters, the youngest is 23. His late wife miscarried their son. I lost my two girls but have gained two girls through him. He lost his son but God is blessing us both with a miracle boy who so far has been right on target with only minimal complications with me becoming dehydrated. Miracle babies do happen and how lucky are we to be blessed with them?

I forgot to mention this child was also conceived on Christmas according to the doctors...

@cloughgal, wow yes miracle babies are the best! my boys have been a little ahead of "schedule" lol! they're a little bigger than most babies at this point, and at my anatomy scan they said that everything looks great! God definitely works miracles!