@gvarra92, thank you!
@bellamama09 I totally get it. most companies don't care about their employees or their home life. it's truly sad.

My fiancé is a truck driver...locally though so he's home every night he tells them I need to be close to home so in case she goes into labor I can get there, his boss said what's more important money or family...they make him work 16 hours some days it really pisses me off.

Oh wow I'm sorry. It's more so my husband's family that helps out so I completely understand that. I hope everything works out for you guys though. I'm sure in time you will be able to work something out that works for both of your schedules <3

@gvarra92, that's great that he works so hard so you can be home and taking good care of the babes. As for my family, they are filling in now but I hate asking. Normally their help comes at a cost and I get sick of dealing with their nastiness so I try to avoid it if I can.

my husband has to,stay a lot for over time to especially during this time of,year he's a landscaper at a college so he goes in at 6 am and leaves at 230 on Monday , Friday, and Saturday and Tuesday - Thursday he works til 630 at night plus he sometimes works for another guy on Saturdays straight after work til like 7 at. night plus he scraps.
I feel like he is always gone. But I think he doesn't have to work over time if he doesn't want to but he works as much as possible so I am able to stay home with the babies :) different situation kind of but it does suck. what about grandparents ? they are always trying to steal our daughter every chance they get lol