are there any other moms out there that had or having serious fears that something is wrong with…

yes i think about it all the time but the baby reassures me by kicking me 24/7 lol

i just read online i have a 5% chance of misscarriage and a 4% chance the baby will gave a defect. i know that's low but i have bad luck

It's completely normal to be stressed about that @scarlettnikol but you have to be calm and not focus on it too much. Stress is not good. Just take a deep breath and focus on the bigger picture. Plus 5% and 4% are very low percentages. Like I said, it's completely normal to worry, but try not to focus too much on it and you'll be fine. I promise.

@scarlettnikol, you have to stay positive and realize how low those percentile ranges actually are. Especially if not on in your family has mental problems. Or birth defects and if you've never miscarried. I am pretty good about not letting my nerves get to me. I pray a lot and I stay pistive. I only start freaking out an hour before my doctor appointments. But the moment I hear the heartbeat. Everything just brings me back and I know my bean is okay! Honestly. You should buy a fetal Doppler. They're really easy to use at home. And on those days when you feel worried. Just lay down and listen. Hearing your babies heart beat always helps!

I lost my daughter at 29 weeks. I was terrified my entire pregnancy with my son. I ended up going to hospital at 29 weeks and delivering at 31 weeks. he is perfectly healthy now. u just need to try to stay calm.