ladies if u have something thats bothering u about ur fiance and his ex wife whom also has a son…

Best thing to do is talk about it. It's better out than in. @rcdonjuan

haha very good question its pretty much a lose lose situation. I always try to hold it in and think about other things but I don't think that works and I doubt it is healthy 😟

@babydavis915, thanks...trying to figure out how to bring it up again :-)

My husband has an ex wife. They had a son together who is now 2 and we have him, so I have no choice but to put up with her. My husband doesn't like her, nor do I. We always talk about it if it bothers me. But we don't talk bad about her in front of our son or friends and family.

@jamies, I know right, I cant help but think aboit what I wanna sat instead of other things...my fiance is one that trys to suck up when he knows im mad about something that he does so when I bring it up he's like dang I though we were past that...lol nope

@cantrellmommy1315, well his son is 14 and they have an okay realtionship she calls when she needs something so they get along but she doenst speak to me nor have any respect for me which really pissed me off! we dont talk about her infront of his son if we so its never bad....the whole thing reall aggrevates me and being pregnant doesnt help my emotions right now....

@rcdonjuan, Communication is the best thing you can have in any type of relationship. If he doesn't know it's bothering you it's nothing he can really do. Just sit him down and let him know you have something you want to talk about. That's what I do with my fiance' when something is bothering me or I'll send him a text letting him know that we need to talk if he isn't there.

Oh, well that's definitely a different situation than mine. I've been raising my son since he was a year old. But my husband and her do not have any sort of relationship. She tries, like she tries to text him about stuff that had nothing to do with our son and he tells her not to do that. She sent him pics of her ultra sound, and that pissed me off a lot. But I get where you are coming from. It's not easy when you have no control of her being in your life because of a child. it's a lot of drama and no one is ever satisfied. I feel your pain hun

good luck!

@cantrellmommy1315, I know it sucks...I figured after 3 1/2 yrs she would have gotten her shit together and moved on..seems like ever since iv been pregnant shes had abunch of drama with her boy toys and she alwats calls my fiance when she needs something or bawling....I can only keep my mouth shut for so long..im usually the type to just let things fly over but here lately I feel like ima snap!!

@jamies, thank u :-)