RANT 🔴 So, I live in Northern California. Once my family found out I was pregnant, they decided to…
RANT 🔴 So, I live in Northern California. Once my family found out I was pregnant, they decided to move to be closer. My grandma and mom have been here a week all the way from Illinois. They each brought two dogs, and are staying in our spare room / baby room until they can find a house. I'm all for 'doing for family', but they are driving me bat shit crazy, and it's only been a week! My mom has MS, and repeats herself and my grandma is getting older and more emotional by the day. So, I'm digging though the trash, looking for something I had accidentally thrown away, and my mom keeps repeating herself over and over, and my grandma keeps asking "what are you looking for???". Finally, I snap! I said, "just please. Both of you. Stop talking. I'm looking for something I had thrown away on accident!". Of course, they couldn't drop it and kept asking the same same question. All of a sudden my grandma flips out and starts crying, "I don't care if you're pregnant- you can't treat people this way!". And now, of course, I'm the bad guy. She's now crying in "her" room. I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm so over having five dogs in the house, and not being able to nest in the baby room. I'm trying so hard to be nice , but I have such a temper! Ugh. 😣😞
Tannia🌹Hernandez·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
awee I know it can be hard cus of our hormones I completely understand im 30 weeks & everyything irritates me at times but sometimes i really have to take a moment to relax. Your very lucky to have your grandmother I lost mine who meant the worrlddd to me 3 yrs ago & I used to go off on her in similar ways when I was pregnant with my 1st son & you dont know how much I would.give to have her back even if she were to irritate me lol. So I know its hard but try to just be a lil patient at the end of the day they are there for you & baby💕 take it easy love
Samie Thomas·
Мама дочки-младенца
and on the other end i know what it's like to have a mom with MS. not while pregnant, though. she passed 11yrs ago next month. it's difficult. and i can only imagine how much more so right now. try not to beat yourself up too much (if you are) because that's a whole lot to throw into one house. only a matter of time before something happened. if it continues I'd try sitting them down and talking it out. then if it still continues I would just say that you're sorry but since you've spoken your piece there's not much else to be done. hang in there girl.