I so wish my husband would make me a priority to him. I'm just not important to him. It's been so…

Fuck him. Get yourself some ice cream, plop your pregnant booty on the couch and watch all the shows and movies you would ordinarily be embarrassed to watch.

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I know it's easier said than done. But try to make the best out of this time that ur pregnant. Ur not alone u have ur baby. Embrace it. He's the one missing out on a lot of beautiful moments u guys could be sharing together.

I'm so tired of being alone. I feel like since I got pregnant I've lost all my friends. And I feel like I've lost my husband! He is like the only person I have anymore, and he leaves me alone all the time. It's been so depressing. @blueberrybrewing

@kibella22, when I think of the fact that he doesn't care that he's missing this time, it upsets me more. Like he can't possibly care if he just doesn't even mind that he's making this an extremely difficult time.

@preggersrn, I'm sorry you have to deal with this... My pregnancy has also negatively effected most of my friendships just because I'm now unable to do what I used to prior to baby time. If he can't give you what you need, just try your hardest to stay happy for own sake and for your baby's sake. Anything you can think that may cheer you up, give it a try, even if it's just something silly like making a home made face mask with shit like bananas and honey. I'm alone a lot too and sometimes it drives me crazy...but think, in several months we'll be wishing we had alone time! I'm sure he does care, but his head isn't in the game like it should be. That's not your fault...you can't change how people act, only how to react to it.

@preggersrn, I'm sorry for you feel this way! Have you tried talking to him about things that bother you? Husbands, boyfriends, partners will never understand how we feel when we are pregnant! It's all about compromising! Some people react differently! Hang in there!!!! Like the other ladies said do something for yourself!

@preggersrn,

I know it can get very depressing and lonely. Idk why men tend to act diff when women get pregnant. U have to think that he can't be ur priority for now. It has to be ur baby. Go online and look at baby stuff. Don't stay in the house during the day go do stuff. What about ur family?.. It's very sad bc this is supposed to be one of the most special times of ur lives. But I think the thing is that we become and feel like moms the minute we pee in the stick and feel it move. Throughout the 9 months it's easier to bond with baby. But some men don't feel attached or close to baby until they hold baby in their arms and it's like it's real. U know. U have make an effort to not be so sad as hard as it may be, bc u might start resenting him even more later on.

@kikicalderon, yes I've told him. Repeatedly. He just won't ever change. It's like he really really just doesn't care. @kibella22 I'm scared resentment has already started :( We r supposed to go see a marriage counselor on Monday. It just sux and I can't wrap my mind around how he is. @blueberrybrewing

@preggersrn, hang in there! I don't know if you are religious or not but someone very special to me gave me a devotional book that I read every morning and it literally carries me thru the day. And sometimes I know just reading words of encouragement it helps!

I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers hoping what is best for you and your child will be @preggersrn

Thank you @kikicalderon!!! It helps just being able to vent on here sometimes too!