RANT: ok so I'm 10 weeks pregnant with my third baby...Im so scared...why? with my first two…
RANT: ok so I'm 10 weeks pregnant with my third baby...Im so scared...why? with my first two children (2 boys) I had almost perfect pregnancies, no issues at all...but with this baby, when I was about 6 weeks I had a very bad bleed, causing a miscarriage of my baby's twin...now (not.being able to feel the baby move since I'm so early) I'm afraid that I might lose this baby also :( I'm trying not to stress but just the thought that when I go for my ultrasound my baby might not be there is scaring the crap out of me
deleted-user·
Take it easy because you're stressing like that can cause everything you just named . Don't worry about something that's totally out of your hands right now . Wait for the ultrasound in the meantime try to keep yourself and mind occupied on something positive
rykerp15·
Мама сына-младенца
hang in there momma
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@phasion, @rykerp15 thanks ladies....I keep telling myself just don't worry...so Im trying.not.too lol
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
We actually had a mom go through something similar, her name is @twinsmommy2015, maybe she can give you some advice 😊 (I hope you don't mind me tagging you)
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
sorry it's @twinsmother2015
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@sking092192, thanks hun, I really need as.much advice as.I can.get
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
@babybump3, just keep faith! I'm sure all will be well, I'm thinking about you and your little one❤
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
thanks hunny
twinsmother2015·
Мама сына-младенца
@sking092192 I don't mind & @babybump3 at about 9 weeks I had a very bad bleed but when i went to the hospital they told me I was pregnant with twins (I didn't know)... everything was fine after that, except for bleeding on and off well spotting and no one knew why because everything seemed fine, so at 13 weeks I started having some really bad pressure and it felt like my leg was about to fall off, and the pains came from my vagina. almost felt like I had arthritis or something in my leg. Told the doc about it, told me not to worry that the pressure was cuz I was carrying two. so at 17 weeks the pressure came more frequently and I couldn't even close my legs sometimes, then it would go away... so at 18+6 it was unbearable I called the doc and asked could I come in... I got my cervix checked and got the doppler done for the heartbeats and I was told they were fine. I got sent home knowing something wasn't right. so I went to bed, that next morning at 19weeks I woke feeling like I had to pee really bad, went to pee and in mid pee something hard came down, I thought it was one of my babies but it was my sac and it broke in between my lips and in my hand because I was holding if, scared to let it go. I got rushed to the ER and was told that my son may or may not come (he had been in and out of my vaginal canal for some time). they leaned me backwards, kinda upside down in the bed trying to keep him in but he ended up sliding his feet out after 11 hours then I had to push. he passed. then I was told my daughter may come behind him because they said normally twins follow each other so I was put on bed rest in the hospital until eirher she came or until close to my due date. she decided to kick my cervix til I was fully dilated so she came 5 weeks later at 24 weeks and she's fine. They were in different sacs, sometimes that doesn't matter though.. I had a friend who went into labor 4 days after me and both hers passed away. now idk If my story helps you because you're so early and I didn't even know it was twins til I was 9w+3 and my line was split so distinct that you could tell it was two different sacs. so just don't stress, continue everything normal as if nothing ever happened and just be at peace. it will be OK mama
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@twinsmother2015, thank you so much, yes your experience just lets me know that even tho it's somewhat out of my hands, there is also a glimmer of hope that everything will be fine
twinsmother2015·
Мама сына-младенца
@babybump3 EXACTLY!!!! :) no worries baby girl
ummashirah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
my best friend went thru the same thing n when she had her ultrasound they said they ddnt see a baby n the sac and my godson is now 3yrs old she was about 6 weeks with that ultrasound @babybump3
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@ummashirah, I lost the twin...I know the second baby is there, but I just have that little thought in the back of my mind that it might go away
ummashirah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
awww well sorry too hear that and hope that ur fears subside n u have a healthy pregnancy the rest of the way @babybump3
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
thanks hun @ummashirah