Okay, I need some imput. A coworker of mine is pregnant and is fixing to have her baby, she's like…
Okay, I need some imput. A coworker of mine is pregnant and is fixing to have her baby, she's like 26 weeks? But she's not a great person. she doesn't take care of her other kids and she really doesn't deserve this baby. (her youngest is partially deaf and blind due her the moms drug use.) but that's another story, she posted on facebook she really needed help because she has nothing for her little girl that's fixing to be born. so I messaged her, nd she literally has NOTHING. so I was going to give her my old stroller, extra swing and all Alauras clothes and stuff she's outgrown nd some pacys and bottles and blankets, etc. and my extra infant seat (I'm fixing to buy Alaura a convertible seat) half this stuff was given to us so I want to pass it along. All we bought new was our good swing, the car seat and our good stroller.. But Shawn and his mom are saying not to give it to her because she'll just sell it.. and she doesn't deserve it.. I get that. I'm not doing it for her. I'm doing it for this poor baby who's going to suffer, she can't help it she has horrible parents.. Am I wrong?
missing217user·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
no your not wrong... I mean if your not using the stuff why hold on to it? I think your doing a great thing by helping her out.. most of my son clothes were given to us by a friend that has two boys and they don't were them anymore...
Lyndsey·
Мама дочки-младенца
is pass it along
Lyndsey·
Мама дочки-младенца
id*
Allisha·
В ожидании первенца
I think you should go with your instinct.
Lyndsey·
Мама дочки-младенца
Two of my sisters friends had helped us out a lot with clothes diaper genie and a bouncer it really was appreciated! You have a kind soul if you feel it is a good thing to do you should do it!
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
Thanks ladies, I just feel really bad for the baby, she's being born early already due to her mom being a shitty person.. I made a deal with fiance, he said I could give her everything but the carseat.. we paid alot for it and it's barely 2 months old.. he wants to sell if if it goes..
prego_again·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)
I'd pass it along... and it's amazing that u choose this woman u don't care for. hope 3 very thing goes ok
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
@prego_again, It's hard because all she does is tell us how she drinks and smokes and does drugs and crap.. I just don't get how you could treat an innocent child so wrong
Bryawna Farmer·
В ожидании первенца
You don't know if she will sell it. If she does then that is on her but you know you did what you could for that baby by passing it on to her otherwise you may always wonder or wish you did something
missing69user·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (38 нед.)
@bryawna13, that's what I told my fiance
prego_again·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@sking092192, im sorry I know that's hard... she may get here baby taken away if she's doing that stuff
babykeysmommy2u·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (15 нед.)
helping is always good to do I help people all the time with baby stuff no matter what there pass is or how they live Maybe the reason for her doing what she doe's is deeper then you think but yea I say you go with your 1st mind ...