Hey I have a question. My mom and my sister are throwing us a baby shower. They have been very…

Hey I have a question. My mom and my sister are throwing us a baby shower. They have been very generous and want to handle it all one there own. Won't even let me help pay for anything no matter how much I offer. I have even offered just to help with decorations or with addresses or even just like letting them use mu stockpile [I'm a couponer so I have a lot just on hand]. They won't accept my help in any form.

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I'm due end of September. And mom told me they are doing my shower mid august. that date makes me uncomfortable. I was hoping to have a bit more time after my shower before the baby so I could put everything away and have time to see what I need and still have time to go buy it all. Plus I live in ohio. It's been getting pretty warm here already. So much so that I'm sweating and panting and agitated and just wanna be left alone. I'm afraid at 8 months pregnant too I'll just be mean..lol

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Is it rude to ask them to move it to july? I feel like it would be because they are covering this completely and I'm assuming had to around there schedules. But I'm nervous. I mean what if she comes before then? I was 8 weeks early, my sister was 6 weeks early and I'm afraid she might be too. I don't want to be rude I'm very grateful for what they are doing