mine went back to normal too...id advice to do ya pelvic exercise that will also help it to return to normal...Sex life normality after birth all depends on the parties involved lol..

your welcome x

@bubble, Thank you for your honest response

@mizzguyana, sorry to be crude but my 'tightness' went back to normal. i didnt have sex for nearly 7 months as me and dad split up but i was fine when I did. But i did have stitches and the scar was visible for a couple of years and she didnt sew me up high enough so you could see inside more than before. As for my sex life i cant comment too much as i was out of my relation by time baby was born x