🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨RANT🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨 so tell me why after all the stuff my bf told me over the phone yesterday for mothers…
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so tell me why after all the stuff my bf told me over the phone yesterday for mothers day saying"how he was going to change,and that he never wanted to miss out on so much,and that hes missing out on his sons first moments,and that when he get out of jail he was going to stop ever bad thing he ever did "doing drugs/fighting'..and i believed him to..until earlier this morning like at 6 am he calls me and ask me "wyd" so i tell him saying' "watching our son"..next thing i know he tells me "im high asf"...and so i got pissed and asked how,like what you mean..then tell me why he SAYSSSS"remember yesterday when i told you to go put money on my books cause i had bought something in here"..so i told him "thats why you fucking had me put money on your books!i thought you wanted to buy food or stuff for hygiene!!"..he had me put 149 dollars on his books just so he can buy some fucking drugs..so before he could say anything more i told him"im done trying with you,your making me give up on you"and then he was like "its like that?" then i clicked on his dumb useless ass.like if hes not going to try then im not.untill he change his ways im not going to show him no love,sympathy, or compassion.im done with his childish ways.he needa to grow up for our son,otherwise ill gladly raise my child by myself instead of having his son witness his bullshit
JoJo·
Мама сына (1 год)
I'm in a very similar situation. The only real arguments my baby's dad and I have had have been over his drinking and spending at bars. From the time we first started dating he got arrested for cocaine possession. My dumbass stayed with him after that. I thought moving in together I'd be able to watch him . He stopped the coke, but he's a party boy and when he gets around his friends and alcohol he's a completely different person. He's left me at home sick to stay out drinking. He's spent so much money out drinking it's left us broke. He's stayed out all night partying. The last fight we got into before I left was because we were celebrating his friends birthday. I was already pregnant mind you, and he decided to leave me at this bar alone to go buy xanies. I left him. Moved 5 hours away to my moms. He's told me the same apologetic sob story too, that he'd change and he loves me blah blah blah. Then last week I was on my way to my dr appt and checked our account. He spent almost $500 at a bar! I didn't have money for my dr appt. I told him if he wanted things to work to move down here with me, but he's afraid to lose his job. As much as I love him, all the trust I had is gone. I don't believe anything he says. He wants to stay there until I have the baby, so I'm going to empty his account every payday. That's the only way I'll know he's not spending money on dumb shit. It sucks because I know like me, you're a good woman, and good women do not deserve to be treated this way. We can do way better. Just stay strong for your baby!
Megan·
В ожидании первенца
good for you! stay strong & do whats best for you & baby!
kryssyn·
Мама сына-младенца
@jojo2292, your right we can do better,and we will💕
kryssyn·
Мама сына-младенца
@meganeileen6, thank you💕
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
You can do bad by yourself . I would move on . Your son deserves better . And I wouldn't give him anymore money . Fr fr .