Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Got to the hospital at 4 am to start my pitocin, well.. I was put on the drip at 430 am , and was 4cm dilated and 80 percent effaced, an hour later. The nurse came in to check me, hours later, and I was at 6 cm. I got the epidural at 6cm.. But it didn't work for me, no more than 20 minutes later, I couldn't take the pain, I was screaming and crying.. And felt everything.. most terrible pain ever, I called for my nurse to come in and she checked me again, said I was ready to deliver, babys head was there. About 30 minutes of pushing, and 8 stitches later, 10:40 a.m. I gave birth to the most beautiful, little girl in the world, weighing 5 pounds and 8 ounces, 18 inches long! Welcome to the world Scarlette Jayde, youre so perfect.. and were so blessed to be your parents!! Even though I felt everything, and the epidural didn't work for me, I have to say the pain I felt was so worth it!!!
I have a low tolerance of pain so I’m screwed either way 😂 but I am going to get through a natural birth no matter what! Quick question: Are the contractions or pushing the most painful? I’ve felt contractions with my first and omg. But I didn’t experience the pushing. He was way to tiny.
My birth story! (It's long lol) This is my little Uriah. I can't explain how much love I feel looking at his face. The pain was completely worth it. So I was awake after watching a movie with my mom and I decided to get some food and go up to dh. After I ate my water broke because I did squats lmao!!! I did 3 squats and on the third one my water burst, that was at 2:43am, I then went down to tell my mom but didn't have any contractions yet. I got to the hospital around 4:15 and at 5 they came and checked me and I was still a 2, they said I had to be monitored for a while and tried to say they were going to start pitocin and I said no. I'm doing this naturally. And they said well how do you plan on doing that, and I said I'll walk around to help myself dilate. So I did that and at 7 I was a 4-5 90% effaced, came back at 11 and I was 7cm 50% effaced, they checked at 12:30 and I was 8cm 0% and then at 1:30 I was 8-9 0%. So she had me turn on my side because my cervix was sitting up high on my right side. I had two strong contractions laying on my left side and then he dropped and my body started pushing without me doing it. They had me lay on my back as I was a 10 and they could see his head and I did two big long pushes and he was out! Did immediate skin to skin for two hours and he nursed the whole time. ?? Also if it wasn't for dh I would have probably tried to get up and go home and say forget it we aren't having a baby today lmao! I went from crying from contractions at 7cm to being able to breathe through them so quietly and calmly that they didn't hurt as bad at even 9cm. My mom rubbed my back for me the whole time and I'll forever be grateful to her for doing that. I'm so happy with my little prince and his daddy just cried when he saw him. So much love in that room.
Ok guys labor story: My water broke about 10:30 last night. I put on a pad and monitored the leaking for an hour and about 12 I went to the hospital. I was admitted an hour later and they put my IV in and and took blood all that good stuff lol. By this I was having some mild contractions. Around 4 they started my pitocin and the contractions got really strong and were coming about 2 mins apart I asked for pain meds and the nurse put something in my IV that made me woozy it worked for about 45 mins then the contractions became unbearable. I asked for an epidural I got it about 5:30 but I was still only 1 1/2 cm so my dr made fun of me lol an hour later I was sleep lol I woke up about 11:30 bc my epidural was wearing off I was feeling a lot of pressure from the contractions I. fought through it until I felt like I was being ripped apart and I was BEGGING for another dose before they gave it to me the nurse checked me and I was 7cms and the contractions were BRUTAL lol I got another dose of the epidural and the nurse turned me on my side and went to check on another patient 5 mins later I told my mom and bf go get the nurse bc I had to to push and they kept telling me no bc I was only 7 and I was screaming GO GET THE NURSE HE'S COMING NOW! she came back checked BAM 10cms lol I literally went from 7 to 10 in 5 mins and I felt every bit of it. They started me pushing my dr came in and I pushed for 30 mins and I watched it in a mirror the whole time it was beautiful the after his head and shoulders came out I got to pull him out myself 😍 Luckily for me by the third push the epidural kicked back in and I didn't feel the last 15 mins of pushing lol. My baby came out hungry and looking for a boob lol
Sharelle·
Post pics of your beautiful baby girl... What's her name and how much did she weigh. You had me LOL at the part u had to reevaluate your life @helpedbytmh but congrats again I'm glad she's here safe and sound!!! GOOD JOB MOMMA
Shawna Santistevan·
I hope my L&D goes pretty easy like yours did. But I don't have a big tolerance for pain
deleted-user·
Omg that's why I want a natural birth this was beautiful 🙌🏽 some women are just focused on the epidural my thing is if it's not needed why do it I'm trying to go as natural as possible especially I heard and read so many positive birth stories which keeps me positive :) congrats again
helpedbytmh·
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@mrsalston, as much as I would love to, this site is way to open and may have weirdos lurking, but when I dress her up, Ill post pics without her face showing. and I really did have to reevaluate my life they were too strong lool and thank u for your kind words
helpedbytmh·
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@santistevanmommie, set your mind on it and don't expect anything less and it will!
helpedbytmh·
Мама дочки-младенца
@phasion, aww thank u. It really is a mind thing. if your pregnancy is going normal and there's no complication is theres no reason u can't have the birth you can't have the birth u desire. Keep reading those natural birth stories, and emerse yourself in natural birth stuff and u will
helpedbytmh·
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I wouldn't have done it any other way
Sharelle·
Aww, I bet she's a cutie but I definitely understand @helpedbytmh I've stressed to my husband that I don't want my babies pics on ig when he/she first gets here let me decide when's the best time to introduce our child to social media. So I definitely understand.. Enjoy your baby girl!!
💚Mizz Rita💚·
Мама троих детей
awww congrats.. I to choose not to be checked until labor .... and yes the stitches hurt the most I felt every Lil thing I did it natural to not by choice tho baby came way to quick lol
Lili Nessa·
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Oh wow!!! But all good! U really lucky mama everything went smooth and u weren't even in labor for too long. Can't wait to see pic of your little precious baby girl 💕💞