is it crazy to plan when I want to concieve and when I want to have a baby?

No I don't think it is crazy at all

No. Some people would prefer a season for there baby's birthday. For like birthday parties and things like that

well my on jasper was born in jan. now I want a summer baby so their bdays arent close enouh for me to freak out and stress

No it's not crazy. My husband and I planned it like that unfortunately not how it happened lol 😂😂. It happened when we least expected it. But we are deff planning to give her a sibling in 2 years ☺️

yeah. thats what im scared of.

I dont think I cant handle havig 2 bdays close together.