mommies out there ; did any of you tear ? when do you feel normal again 😩😩... & when do you advice…

well I tore all the way down..onto my butthole. /: I didn't have sex until 3 months later. at my 6 week check up it still hurt a little..when he'd move his fingers. but it never hurt much. just a little when wiping my butt haha

@tavarusmommy21, yeah I tore that bad too ... I have to get a pap smear at my 6 weeks 😢 not looking forward to that

its okay (: he could say you healed fast and are ready for sex again. I was just too scared of getting pregnant and pain so I waited awhile. but at my 6 week he okayed everything (: hopefully everything goes well for you!!

@tavarusmommy21, I'm with you on the pregnant thing !!! thanks for the reassurance I was honestly loosing hope

right omg 😓 and you're welcome! I'm sure everything will be fine..and honestly it doesn't feel like I tore at all..when we first did it..it was so tight lol..it was a struggle. so I think everything will go back to normal for you as well! (:

I was terrified to have sex and it honestly didn't feel the same for a long time after birth because of the scar tissue. I tore a lot and I was so afraid because I healed slowly. even after the dr said I was OK I still hurt a lot.

I took two months to heal 😫