If he has an iPhone and you know his apple ID & password then track him and hunt him down.
To be honest going to bed and going to sleep is two different things . I'm currently tired & in bed and I'm on this here preggie app . Now if he said he was going to sleep now that's a different story but don't rush off thinking he's cheating because of something that maybe misunderstood @laylagrace
My husband has cheated on me 4 times & that's how I found out each time and he doesn't know about me tracking him but it worked all 4 times 😩