my S.O has only had his 4 children via C section, my doctor said it looks like I can have this baby…

is this your first time having a baby ?

yep.... so idk what to do to ease his mind

@dianne0825, he's scared of losing you. do you have any health problems. cause someone dying giving labor is really rare. it happens but not as often. and if someone do die its because they bled to much. Tell him to have faith, and believe in God. vaginal is not that bad.

I'm considered high risk cause I've had 4 miscarriages but I've tried to explain that I'll be fine and if anything happens the doctors are capable of handling it.. I think he's just scared in general and that's the only way he feels he can tell me without worrying me

what does S O mean

significant other

If you have had multiple miscarriages in the past you should probably go for a C-section just to be sure you will be fine.

@feliciarose my doctor is refusing to listen to me when I say that I feel a C-section would be safer for the baby and that, that is my main concern and he just refuses to hear me out about it..... when people find out I want a C-section they jump my a** because "that's stupid, have the baby naturally" but they don't know what I've been through and it's frustrating....

its natural anyways. its not like the baby will be arriving from odd places because either way you are not going to feel it due to the epideral

just wish the doctor would listen @feliciarose

@dianne0825, I just now seen this. but if you then had 4 miscarriages your best thing to do is continue to ask for a csection. Just to be on the safe side. I honestly don't think nothing will happen to you, but its better to be safe.