My aunt is about to pass away, they just took her off the ventilator, and it's just a matter of…

My aunt is about to pass away, they just took her off the ventilator, and it's just a matter of time, and my sister is giving me more abuse since she got to see my daughter and not her son, but she choose not to go, and knew what her choice meant, but she still won't take blame and is having a pity party, and taking it out on me.