I know it's late I need opinions plz I'm so confused right now my bf just crashed our car with his friend and ran no one…

Honestly let him get caught! Because you can get in trouble for hiding him and that is not worth it!

You have a baby to think about not him.

that's what I keep telling myself but stupid keeps creeping in wanting to help stupid ppl my baby's stuff was in there I'm so pissed he's all banged up sleeping ND I'm up worrying like a dumbass. but thanks @jayviensmommy15 your right

Girl don't stress about him , this is his consequence for doing something dumb.. He shouldn't be doing situation like that knowing he has a baby keep ur head up and hope everything gets better.

I agree with me ayviensmommy15 his mistake not yours. Everybody's gotta pay for their mistake. Hope all is well with you and your baby and that everything gets worked out.

I meant I agree with @jayviensmommy15 idk my auto correct changed it.

That's this decision to just leave the scene of an accident I wouldn't lie for him! Think of your baby!

I know if it was my bf I would absolutely lie for him as I know he would lie for me. He'll pay for his mistake still don't worry... His car... The guilt... Etc.

Dont lie for him !!! you have a baby to think about.!!

lies will honestly just make things worse sometimes depends on how bad it was to if the lie could be believable or not cause if not i wouldnt do it

thanks @jayviensmommy15 I'm happy we didn't go with him I knew he'd been drinking. I hope so to @jennahall75 thanks .I know @tracynangel that's the only reason I wanna lie so that she has a dad because I'm so fed up if he goes to jail I won't b here when he gets out it's been more than once. @regelbaby me too he would but that's what I wish I can say this is the 3rd car he promises he'll stop drinking but I don't know how to help him anymore. @lexuselliott like I said I'm trying to hard to think about here but so unsure of what's right. @allymae I've bailed him out before and that's why I know he can get a way with a slap on wrist again but he wants to lies but that involve me too and I honestly want to just watch him suffer he's all banged up and wanting my help I don't even wanna do that I feel like a bad person but he wasn't thinking of us!

thanks ladies I never have anyone to talk because everyone that always says I told u so from the beginning it'd be different if I didn't have my baby but I do it makes it so hard she loves him so much . how do I explain what I took away from her because if I leave I won't come back he won't see her till he's better nd I'm not sure that will happen 😞

@yesenia5, honestly if it was one time and a simple accident I would say lie but at this point that is three cars and it has happened before so There is not much the cops will believe. He can promise he will stop all he wants but has he proved it? He wasn't thinking of your or your child maybe not lying for him and not bailing him out will be the wake up call he needs. He cared more about drinking and not how you guys would be? Show him you aren't going to put up with it. He didn't hurt someone this time but he just might the next. What if it was someone else drinking and fdriving and you and your child were hit by them? It can totally be avoided. Don't let it be a possibility hun❤️ it's hard but you can't let him continue to put people's lives at risk of even his own. He has a child to be there for.

that's what I kept telling him my friends family was killed like that @bryawna13 so that's why I feel like a hypocrite if I don't so something if he wants to lie that's all him but I won't lie for him your so right it just sucks i have to remember what's right. I kept telling him I'll tell them where u are and where u weren't. but now if it happens it happens thanks girl his tears are just a way to get to me he knows that he needs to learn .

You're welcome dear. @Yesenia5 stay strong just remember not lying is protecting innocent people, you your child and him from doing it again❤️

You didn't take anything away from her, he took himself away. He should've thought about his daughter before he drank and drove and if this isn't the first time he didn't learn from the first time. Maybe him loosing everything will make him see what he had. His job, you, and his daughter and when all that's gone he will come to the realization that he needs to change.

thanks ladies weve left when she was a month he came for us change only last a week at the most I'm giving up I can't help someon who doesn't wanna change

Ya if it was once ide lie if this is 3rd time ide be on the fence