My friend is in love with her ex who moved out of state, they broke up 4 years ago and he moved out of state to better himself for her. He opened up a now very successful landscaping business and bought them a house. She has a child with another man now, and is torn because she wants to be with her ex but doesn't want to take her child from the father father. The ex can't come to her because of the business he has out of state. Advice?