Do any other mommies have a problem with absolutely hating a member of their partners family? My…

I do with my husband's mom. It's terrible. And we live with her so it's even worse.

@kathale95, I just had my baby and it got totally worse with my fiances mom! now she trys to tell me what I need to do with my child..I don't like his mom she's been spiteful the whole time!! and I barely let them see her because I know what's best for my child and when I tell her to do something I expect it to be done right..she over feeds my child, she let my daughter shit up her back, she is always telling me I shouldn't keep my daughter naked in a 80 degree home with a blanket on her while she's laying on my chest!! and I told my fiance I refuse to let them watch her ever.

I think what makes it even worse is that she has family troubles with her kids and doesn't even try to see her grandkids and she's all over me about my baby. my fiance doesn't understand why I feel this way and I don't really know how to tell him. I just tell him I don't want to go over to ghe it house, but he always gets mad at me.

@kathale95, o and another thing..they invite themselves over when ever they please -_- and when my daughter is finally put to sleep they pick her up and wake her up..they bitch that all she does is sleep!!! like hello she's a newborn that's normal for her...so they literally wake her then I gotta spend time putting her back to sleep

@sophiebaby12, yes!!! I have told him multiple times that I would never trust them to watch my baby and he's only response is "you can say whatever you want about her but she's a good mom." and I just sit there trying not to yell at him and say "then why doesn't she go see her ACTUAL grandkids or her own kids for that matter?!"

@sophiebaby12, his actual mother is that way. She will just call and say she's here. I mean I understand his family is just like that but what if I don't want company or what if I was trying to sleep cause I slept so bad the night before? just call and give me a heads up so I'll know!

yeah she has not did one thing for the baby...my mom has been spending the money, helps buy formula and diapers or just little gifts for the baby..and his parents are like whatever with her. then when I don't bring her around they have the nerve to complain and come to my house yelling at me saying that they have rights to see their grandchild too

The other day he was talking to his mom about how she just let's his little sister, who is 9 with special needs (mentally she is like 3 or 4), just run around outside by herself without supervision. He said that he is scared she is gonna just let our baby do that and that he won't want her to watch him if she allows that to happen. so then she comes to me knowing I won't be rude or disrespectful to her and says that "I better tell him to let her see that baby." and I can't just tell him that because I completely agree with him! @sophiebaby12

He doesn't realize how much pressure and stress his family puts on me and I don't know what to tell him because since it's his family he'll just get defensive and start arguing.

@kathale95, I know hun I been thru it and it sucks because sometimes it gets so bad that I think about taking my daughter and leaving...because his own sister came over at 9 at night and decided to bathe my daughter for me, feed her, change her, and put her to bed...I didn't ask for that and it certainly was her over stepping me as a mom...he allowed her to come over that late. and when I asked for my daughter cause she was screaming his sister looked at me and was like no I got it don't worry I had a kid I'm capable of taking care of her....

@sophiebaby12, Men just don't realize how much we put up with. Like some days I feel depressed cause I feel like I can't talk to him without him trying to come up with a "logical" reason for whatever is going on with me or for whatever I'm feeling.

@kathale95, same here I gave up talking with him because I'm always wrong

@sophiebaby12, I think you are my soul mommy, haha

@kathale95, haha well everything u feel and deal with is normal. I seen this and was like o thank god