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******Ok ladies tell me am I being petty n should I let this go?****** So I'm sitting in bed preparing to feed baby ,…

******Ok ladies tell me am I being petty n should I let this go?******

So I'm sitting in bed preparing to feed baby , dad is holding her he gets out of bed with her takes her with him in bathroom to piss! I want to scream at him " what the Fuc u doing that's nasty don't ever again" but it's 3 am and it will def turn into a big argument n I have a 12 yr old n newborn baby who don't need the yelling and two I feel he did it to get a rise out of me so I didn't say nothing I'm so mad bout it tho I want to cry I feel she too new n that's nasty n not necessary she has a bed n I was right there .

I do plan to address it in the morning in the most polite way.

Am I wrong for not wanting him to do that?

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missing183user

missing183user

Мама дочки-младенца

That's weird. I could understand if no one else was in the house and he had to pee really bad but even then you could set her down so you can go. I would definitely be upset

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rlcorreia123

Rayvhen Lynn Correia

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

No, I don't think you are wrong for that. I would be upset too. On another note, despite it being gross, it's kind of cute that he apparently doesn't want to put her down? lol

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rlcorreia123

Rayvhen Lynn Correia

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I don't know. I think a lot of the time men just don't think before they do stuff. Kind of like how dogs are. you know the here and now mentality... Not the "I should think this through mentality" lol

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ginag918

GinaG

Мама двоих (младенец)

Yes he always says I got an attitude so earlier he was upset that we didn't erase his show he said I said it with tude n I broke up with him recently as we've been in a weird place since I got pregnant so I feel it was done so he could say I'm always bitching because he was mad Already @iloveni0820

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missing183user

missing183user

Мама дочки-младенца

@ginag918, if he's doing stupid things then you have every right to be bitchy! He seems childish why start something that doesn't need to be started and cause arguing especially with young kids in the house

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rlcorreia123

Rayvhen Lynn Correia

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

If you think he is doing it in particular to make you mad, that sound very passive aggressive in nature, and that is not healthy for either of you, nor the baby. But definantly address him about it in the morning. Just ask him instead of yell or being angry. just say that it bothered you, and you wanted to know why he did it.

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rlcorreia123

Rayvhen Lynn Correia

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I would say that if you ask him calmly why he did it and he gets defensive or an attitude then he probably did it to make you mad, or he is immature as all hell. if he doesn't get irritated, then chances are he just wasn't thinking

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ginag918

GinaG

Мама двоих (младенец)

Lol I guess that's one way to look at it I'll start it off on a positive thanks @rlcorreia123 but I still think it's eww so I have to say something

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rlcorreia123

Rayvhen Lynn Correia

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

lol, it definantly is an ewww, but yeah, guys can be that way unfortunately for us. lol. no problem! and good luck! lol

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ginag918

GinaG

Мама двоих (младенец)

Right @iloveni0820 I do have an attitude problem and I've been working really hard n not reacting how I normally would to certain things because I already have a BD that I can't get along with because he's a deadbeat and because of my attitude I don't want that to be the case this time as I'm older and even though I don't want to be with him I don't want to have a bAd parenting relationship

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missing183user

missing183user

Мама дочки-младенца

I know what you mean. My boyfriend is always complaining about my attitude problem but I'm working on it. Does he know you don't want to be with him ?

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rlcorreia123

Rayvhen Lynn Correia

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Deep breaths hun, I never met a man that didn't get under my skin too. My husband still leaves the toilet seat up knowing im pregnant and wake up at wee hours of the morning to groggily pee because Viktor punches my bladder. i kid you not i fell in one morning and started screeching at him from the bathroom. thankfully he flushed. lmao

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ginag918

GinaG

Мама двоих (младенец)

Lmao @rlcorreia123

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ginag918

GinaG

Мама двоих (младенец)

@iloveni0820, yes we talked and agreed that we were not treating each other the way we deserved to be treated in a relationship we both admitted to our faults and I told him that I felt he wasn't there for me like I felt he should have been while I was pregnant and that because of how I am I would hold resentment n anger towards him for a long while so it was best to just mk it about the baby. So he knows it's over and he put up no argument against breaking up so I feel we on same page with that

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bstill60

Bethany

its weird for a guy to do that.. not moms.. moms can't ever put their baby down. my sister did the insanity program with her baby in her arms lol

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