are there any ftm out there that are scared they're going to be a bad mommy or is it just me? i try…

honestly me too

Me too

Im scared because I'm young, i know how i was before i got pregnant and im Afraid shes gunna get here and my mom instincts arent going to kick in... i want to be the best mother i can possibly be because shes my world but what if i dont have it in me.

Sometimes I do. I grew up with a verbally abusive mom, who tried and got better as I got older but she yelled and said mean things. I am scared I'll become her. I am a better communicator than her and thanks to my husband have learned to communicate better. But sometimes you show your true side that you been raised to see and hear. Sorry for the rant but I've been thinking that to. I pray everyday I can be a loving, patient mom. :) you will a great mom to!

I'm a ftm but I'm not scared. you can only do ur best and that's all any of our kids can ask for. we are bound to make mistakes and mess up we are only human. But we will live and learn from those. your mommy instinct will guide you through it.ask ur mom or grandma someone to help guide you. I'm always welcome to my mother's and aunts advise.

honestly ladies everything will be okay. I have never been around babies. never changed a diaper. never even held a newborn. and everything has came natural like ive done it for years @shellybear @marguerite_1990 @amiyasmomma