Ugh! You can't have us back now! You have another girlfriend. You might call her someone that just…

Karma needs to get my soon to be ex husband also! I'm glad karma got Ur man! It needs to get him agsin! I don't feel like guys learn permanently !

If he want to be with y'all so badly he will do what he have to do to move to be with you all. I wouldn't quit my job either

I'm from Indiana too!

Yea he's like "this is where I've always wanted to be but I don't love her and I miss you and your love and your smile. I even traded in my mustang and bought us a family car. Come out here and be with me. I messed up. Come out here now. I know you can." And I was like I'm at a high risk OB. The only way I'd get out there is by driving. All of my doctors are here. My job is here. My daughters stuff is here. If you really wanted us you'd come back and wait to move until the end of the year. And @mmmirage guys don't learn permanently, ever. He cheats and cheats and cheats and has tons of dating sites up in California and has the nerve to think I'm going to come out there to be with him. What an idiot. I really hate being single through my very first pregnancy, but putting up with him and even entertaining the thought of me moving out there to be with him is so not worth it. I'm not about to move to Nipomo to be with a car salesman that can't keep it in his pants. If anything I feel bad for his new girl, because she's 23, thinks he's amazing and I tried to reach out to her and tell her to run before he steals all of her money, but she didn't listen. Not my problem anymore. Just like with the last girl. She chose to ignore me and found out the hard way too. He stole a grand from her. Karma karma karma.

he will want you till he has you and then once you give up the life you have now to move with him he will do it again. I've been through that before myself. good job standing your ground.

@junebaby, I honestly thought I'd be happy when he found himself regretting the choices that he made. But at this point it's just annoying. Like all you had to do was grow up and be a man and stop being a boy. But god forbid he actually do that. Men are dumb. And really I guess I shouldn't say men, I should say boys. He might be 25, but he certainly has acted like a 13 year old in all of the time that I've known him. What an idiot.

I was married to a 40 year old who acted 12.

Ugh why do they do this @junebaby ? I mean this is my first child. I'm so excited for her, but I wish that we were a family and now I'm afraid that I'm going to be the only parent here for her, ever.

cause the majority are jerks but you'll find a good man one day. just don't settle. I finally found a good one who loves all my kids and this will be his first baby.

That's awesome! I can't wait until the day that I finally meet the man that can keep up with me and treats me right instead of lying and cheating. And if I could just magically be a super patient person it would be so much easier lol.