Ladies.. I have a question. This is my 2nd pregnancy . I will be 17 weeks pregnant tomorrow (4…

Ladies.. I have a question. This is my 2nd pregnancy . I will be 17 weeks pregnant tomorrow (4 months now ) . I swear this time it's more painful and different from the first one !! I've been feeling heavy near my privates like I know my baby is reallly low low. I would make a joke and tell my boyfriend I swear my baby is in my privates instead in my stomach lol but it makes it soo uncomfortable and my backaches becomes sooo bad it's like I feel like I am 9 months !!! So I did research and from my understanding that when it comes to the first pregnancy , the uterus will stretch as the baby grows then when it comes to the 2nd pregnancy , it is ALREADLY stretched so that means the baby will be low. Sometimes it will hide soo good because there's so much room ... As a result because the baby is low and then feeling the urge to pee becomes too common because the baby is all over the damn bladder lol . And that's why there's a great amount of pain for backaches .

Has this happen to you ?? Did it get worse as you get big and bigger each month ?? I can't help but keep feeling that I'll be ordered to stay in bed by the time I get big lol because o swear my back is killing me 😩