sooo i know this isn't gonna seem like a big deal buhhh.... so me and my bf don't have social media,…

Not okay :( I'm sorry about that. But a relationship shouldn't have rules either though. You should be with someone you trust with every bit of you. You shouldn't have to make rules and hope he follows them :( I learned that the hard way 3 years ago.

@juliagail09, I would be pissed off to. No you're not wrong

yeah unfortunately our relationship dont work that way. he doesnt trust me and i dont trust him. the only way we work is without social media which obviously he wants to start again. @itscatt

Yeah that's not cool. I only have a IG due to drama with Facebook, b it my husband also has a IG and we follow whoever. I know there are some trust issues in your social media use but, he needs to either be honest or not have a IG. I would follow whoever, tell him to get over it.

he cant ever be honest about anything clearly. i even asked him and he said no one. @firefly

a relationship shouldn't have rules is true but honestly I know how you feel I dont allow my bf to have social media because he will also be unfaithful no your not wrong to be mad I was to when he got ig again which I made it stop using we may seem bitchish but if your trying to fix a relationship I think rules are okay just my honest opinion

no disrespect but why are you with him then? if he doesn't trust you and you don't trust him what's the point ? and he should be faithful with or without social media. social media isn't the problem he's the problem.

we have more boundries then rules. i guess i should have said boundries. lol i guess i shouldn't have been so upset about it but it seems like we do good and try to move forward then he does something that in my eyes messes up. @heather_95

I agree I'd be mad I trust my bf then found " his friend" got his phone asking to chill wtf? when I let him go out trusting once again no girl, trust yes boundaries yes too! but too much playing with fire u will get burned eventually

its not like i dont trust him i guess i just trust him to an extent..i dont necessarily trust him to not cheat on me or lie to me. we are alright for each other. im not exactly sure why he doesn't trust me. hes never been faithful with social media which sucks because since he cant have it neither can i. i have no friends i talk to no one. i dont have fb anymore. he was talking to girls on fb and lying about it so we got in a fight and he so i talked to one of my old guy friends and then he asked to look asset my fb so i let him knowing it was still there and he freaked and left and we broke up and then deleted them and then a couple months later found out i was pregnant. i love him I'm not sure he really loves me sometimes. i wish we had more trust for each other but we don't. and now we have henlei sooo... but idk our relationship isnt like it should be i guess. but idk. (sorry for the long reply) @kaymariah

yeah its hard....relationships are hard. i don't trust the girls he associates with... but then again i only trust him to an extent. he's never been faithful in a relationship. we were together the first time for almost two years he fucked me over then we broke up for six months then he got should of me again after i moved then i moved back(with my mom) then i went to Texas for a visit the intended to stay there then he came out with oh i want you back ill be better so i took him back....lol a lot of people think I'm an idiot. @yesenia5

I do the same @juliagail09 only because he keeps trying alot more but I completely understand. everyone thinks I deserve better sometimes I do too but I love him nd till he stops tryimg will be the day I'm gone too. good luck ND talk to him bout it:)

yupp exactly. i know what you mean. thanks. i talked to him and told him i was mad he already knew what it was about. sooo idk we will see what happens next. lol @yesenia5

If you can't trust someone, why would you want to be with that person? Sorry I don't understand...

i know its hard to understand. and its not that i dont trust him at all i just dont trust him as much as i probably should. hes done things and it made me loose alot of trust in him. but slowly it can be built back up. he also is my childs father and someone i have known for years and i do love him, we have a history. i guess what i was getting it is that the situation at had made me uneasy and worried because i dont want to go through the same process again. hes been unfaithful before and it worries me that he may do it again. we have been back together for some time now and besides this situation and some occasional arguing we havent had problems like we did before(nor has he been unfaithful, to my knowledge.) i should have been more clearer with this post and the way i said things. at the time i posted yes it was out of anger and the heat of the moment and i still am not fully happy with the situation. im sure there are some people who do understand and some who dont. @caracross1