why do some people tell me that once you have a baby,your relationship with your partner starts to…
why do some people tell me that once you have a baby,your relationship with your partner starts to change and go bad? i dont think thats true at all..once i found out i was having a baby it seems like me and my bf relationship got stronger and we got closer
Ashley·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
It can happen because you don't have all the freedom that he has and you start to resent each other because your left soon everything . But sometimes it doesn't I have never been in a relationship where it hasn't until now my husband is so supportive but my ex well he's my ex lol
Ashley·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Doing
GinaG·
Мама дочки (12 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
Those are other ppl experiences don't take none of that energy into your relationship everyone is different
kryssyn·
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i know because for some reason ,people keep telling me that once i have our baby that our closeness is going to slowly go away,and that our love life changes
kryssyn·
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but i mean i dont think so cause we spend all our time together 24/7 and we never get tired of being with eachother
GinaG·
Мама дочки (12 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
Sounds like low key or unintentional hate, that's not everyone's story and it doesn't have to be yours if you don't let it most of the time when that happens it's because there were already issues before baby that were ignored Nd not addressed and then the pressures of baby brought it to a head. If they didn't work it wasn't just because of the baby trust that. Most ppl don't want to tell u the real deal it's easy to just say he or she changed when the baby came 99% of the time that is fAlse! @kryssyn
kryssyn·
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@ginag918, right👌i think maybe thats what it is
Kayla·
Мама подростка
me and my boyfriend have been best friends since 2008 and we got together in 2014. in November we found out we were pregnant and we can't be happier. it made our bond stronger. and we can't wait till she gets here . So that is not completely true @kryssyn
kryssyn·
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awweee😍😍💕 @kayla1996 thats so cute you guys were bestfriends first💞..and yah i know,me and my bf are like bestfriends to so i think the people that tell me that just says it because thats what had happened to th
kryssyn·
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them*
Kayla·
Мама подростка
thanks 😘 @kryssyn me and him were trying to get pregnant which helps but as long as you truly love each other your bond should grow.
kryssyn·
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yeah😊😊💕
Emily·
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If you have a good man and love each other it is not the case at all. My fiancé is so excited to be a daddy and helps me all the time. He's a real man. 😊
mandi0101111·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
I think your relationship might change but not always is a bad way. my love life changed we didn't drift apart but our love was like a new kind of love if that made sense.
mandi0101111·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
you go from were in a relationship to were mommy and daddy.
Laura·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I agree with @mandi0101111. You're relationship could change, but not always for the worse. My experience: I think it's made my fiancé more focused on family. It has created some grouchiness and all that between us, but we all 4(me,him, and our 2 girls) share one room. Plus, I think my 2 month old has colic :/ even with this grumpiness, he's excited to have more. He loves his girls. I love it 😍❤️
kryssyn·
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if anything thats what i want,a stonger bond😻💪 @mandi0101111 @laura_love
Laura·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I've found that patience is definitely a necessity