Ladies im so torn!! I don't know what to do. I've been posting about the problems I've been having…

My opinion is if he's disrespectful or things are really bad it's not worth it...

I think you deserve to be happy !

It's not worth the stay if he is disrespectful, yes he may be baby daddy, but if he can't respect you and yall have been having problems then I wouldn't want to have to put baby in that type of environment, and if the other guy wants to step up then I'd just take it slow, yes kids should always have mom and dad growing up but if they can't get along it just hurts more and more everyday and also in the long run! Go with what you feel is right. your an adult your a mom it's about you and baby now, ask your self questions, and if their is more negative then postive then it's time to go, baby will ALWAYS have mom by there side. Just take a look back and answer your questions. Even if the other guy isn't in yalls life very long you still have to do what's best for the baby l. Good luck

@shellybear, @rykerpmommy @kelseykempf22 I just want to do what's best for my daughter and still be happy and idk what decision to make for that to happen

I'm so sorry you have to go thru this commotion! It's so tough and easier said than done. My honest advice to u would be that if u have someone you've known for sooooo long and he actually keeps u happy, take that! If you're not happy with ur bf, it's not worth it. U don't want your daughter to see u miserable and she will have a bad idea abt relationships. Life is too short. Be with who makes u happy. Yeh Ur bf is the father but that doesn't mean u stay unhappy forever. He won't change that's a fact. The next girl will be miserable too. I'll pray for u. Whatever is the best for u will happen

@rykerpmommy I agree 100%

just think any bad habits he has if you stay with him will be passed to your child as well

If he is not good to you leave him. Your daughter may be young and not notice things but she will notice how he treats you when you get older. Be happy! (:

I think you should pray about it. Really think about what's best for you and your baby. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and makes you happy!! Praying for you girl!! "Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take." (‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭6‬ NLT)

I think if u not happy with him dont stay with him. I know as mums we want the best for our children and stay in unhealthy marriages/relationships so our kids wont suffer or be without a father etc. But if u not happy is it worth it? U deserve to be happy.

Do what's best for you and baby and if you're not happy and dad isn't happy the baby can sense that and kids of all ages pick up on that my mom stayed with my dad for ten years he was abusive when I got older she said she stayed for me I told her I wished that whole time that she would have been left I wasn't benefitting from it neither was she

if you aren't happy and he isn't treating u right leave. y'all can work out a agreement with yalls daughter to where he gets time with her or just go to court and have a judge work it out but if you aren't happy don't stay cause it's not good for anyone

We agreed to try couples counseling and see if that helps us @wyattsmommy91 @ginag918 @kay80 @nessa524 @edomke @shellybear @imbecca143 @mmmirage @rykerpmommy @kelseykempf22

Hope that works out for you guys!