my BD irritated me so bad today. so i was supposed to take the baby to see him and his family for…

my BD irritated me so bad today. so i was supposed to take the baby to see him and his family for easter. they live 1 hour and 30 min. away from me. but then it started raining so I said I'm not coming because I have a bald tire and its not safe to drive that far. so he text me back and said "due to your situation I will be coming to pick him up and take him to be with me and my family for the day" ummmm first of all don't just tell me what the fuck your gonna do you need to ASK. I don't give a fuck if he is your son. he don't live with you he live with me because YOU kicked US out. I take care of him all day everyday NOT you so YES you need to ask my permission SORRY don't know what the fuck you thought