Yesterday the hubby was just acting weird.. Ignoring me, not being loving, didn't say a word and…
Yesterday the hubby was just acting weird.. Ignoring me, not being loving, didn't say a word and then wanted to have sex before bed.. I said no, even though I wanted to.. He went to bed all mad didn't cuddle me nothing... And then this morning he woke up kissing me, rubbing my tummy acting like nothing happened... Idk why but that like breaks my heart... 😥 I'm 5 days away from giving birth & he's being so weird..
Jessica·
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could be have anxiety?
bianca·
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I know he's stressed about the financials since I'm currently not working... But idk it's just weird 😕 @jessicagarmal
missing17user·
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He might have been tired or a lot on his mind. I know it's no excuse but that's what my boyfriend does when he's really stressed out
Jessica·
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im no where near delivery but my husband is acting similar... when hes stressed he clams up and doesnt say anything... it can be stressful because i feel like i need support.. and his stress is keeping us from supporting each other., hes not rude.. just kurt and not talking much.. like 1-3 word sentences... it hurts... seems like more sothat our hormones are off the charts :(...
Lili Nessa·
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@jessicagarmal, yup mine gets like that too when stressed and while I'm pregnant wasn't any different way of him dealing with his issues and I was more sensitive and felt hurt of him not realizing that during this I need him the most to be collective and all. @pruisbianca but for sure its stress and they don't think of how it affects us nor the way they're actually acting. Guys.,ohhh my how I have changed my opinion of them while preggo.
bianca·
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It probably is that since he's working and trying to save money and all... But you're right they don't see how it hurts us and I'm probably more sensitive now more than ever. Especially nearing my date and everything... I just wish he could put himself in my shoes sometimes 😕 @chhaya @jessicagarmal @dovejazz
Mmmirage·
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Here's something that'll make u laugh a bit :) dw! Maybe he's just stressed abt sonethibg. He so t stress u knowing ur pregnsnt and close to delivery
Mmmirage·
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Sorry first one got cut off. Here! :)
Lili Nessa·
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@mmmirage, 😂😂😂😂👍 the difference between man and women lol it's true tho we can take things waaaay out of proportion but that's cause were wired that way and guys just in their own world leave us hanging 😏😏 😶😶
Mmmirage·
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@dovejazz, lol men live in their own Tiny world. It's s different planet .. That's why we are made to bear children. We are more wise and affectionate 😬
Lili Nessa·
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@pruisbianca, I totally feel ya, yes!find a moment to talk to him and tell him. Tell him how it is for you too, and that you're also stressing and all but need him to be there to go thru it together.
bianca·
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Ugh now he's texting me bitching about how I don't clean... I clean, it just goes unnoticed. Always. Our place is just small and looks cluttered bc we have so much stuff. Ugh it never ends. I'm gonna go crazy 😥 @dovejazz
Lili Nessa·
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@mmmirage, omg yes what I always say too,soo true hun. Cause even when we go thru craziest stuff we can still be collective & act properly and all. They just act like kids themselves 😏
Lili Nessa·
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@pruisbianca, I know it's annoying on top of what happened previously but try not to argue. And then when things calm tell him how u feel. He probably feels that oh he needs to get the money to support u guys and worry and stress about that and you can't even clean the house. Im no position to say but Thats what I think ...hence he's looking to make u feel bad too.
Mmmirage·
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@dovejazz, lol looks like we weren't ftms. We already had babies! Hahaha