Help!!!!!!! My sister in law offered to keep my Daughter this weekend and the week I have my second…

I don't trust anyone with my kid besides my mom so I totally see where you're coming from. sometimes just telling them how you feel is best. I had to tell my mother in law I'm not comfortable even having my kid around her and I know it hurt her feelings but it had to be done (long story short she's an alcoholic) but your sister is totally in the wrong for trying to go around it to be able to watch your daughter

@emilyyy96___, I just don't trust anyone. I won't even leave her alone with my Grandparents and I trust them I just don't think she would let me leave her there. I have only left her with my Parents and that's because I trust that they respect me and they know how she eats and how she sleeps and everything about her. I just feel bad saying no because I know it'll be some fight. And I'm afraid even if I say no when Im in labor she will just show up and expect my Mom to let her take her.

Maybe just say your mom meant it's ok while while your in labor and then she wants to have time with her after. So this way your mom can be there for you and she won't be with her long.

I'm the same way! I don't have anyone watch my baby except my mom lol.

I don't trust people either cause I know how they are when I'm not around. but it's your baby and your decision. don't be scared to put your foot down!

could your mother and brother and sil take her? maybe all go to a park nearby... i know your mom wouldnt allow anything to hurt your morals... maybe after a few hours sil will get it.out of her system and let mom take over ;)

Just tell her u think its better that ur daughter stays with ur mom cuz she is just to be around ur mum more. Or blame it on ur husband/boyfriends😁...Tell her that he wants ur daughter to stay at ur mums:). It usually works😂. If i dont wanna hurt someones feeling Ive had to lie and say that my husbands thinks its better that way cuz he is overprotective of ur son. Which is actually true. Anyways I totally understand u and I wouldnt either have my kid somewhere where would be drinking and smoking!! My MIL is a wonder person and she is gonna come to spain to look after my son when I get into labor but theres now way Im gonna let her hold my newborn baby if she smokes. I know Im awful but I dont want her to touch my baby with her stinky breath and hands while holding my baby.

she think she slick by going over your head and talking to your mom. she tried to control the situation. u are in control here you are the parent. if u said u had to talk to your mom first then she should have let you do that instead of going over your head and no you are not overreacting. go with your first instinct. are you really comfortable leaving your child with someone you don't trust. never do anything you're not comfortable with. you have to be really carefully with who you choose to leave your kids with even family.

OMG.. So not over reacting my sister in law is the same way, I can't stand her but I'm nice for him.. Just call her and tell her that you don't want to upset her or hurt her feelings but you'd feel better if she was with your mom..

Your her mother, don't do it if your not comfortable, you'll just be worried while your at the hospital..