Am I jus being a big baby? So I find out last night while um sleeping my hubby is up all night watching porn because he "just wants to see some titties and ass" I'm pretty hurt by it because I've been telling him how insecure I feel about my body and the changes I'm going through. He says he's not unattracted to me but now I feel like I'm not good enough. It's made me feel horrible! Am I wrong to be upset? What do I do cause I can't even deal with him right now. I dint even want to undress in front of him because the women he is looking at are nothing like me right now... I feel pretty shitty
theyre just videos try watching some with him I guess I'm just different though I let my bf look and I look with him because I know I'm the one he has a family with and he cuddles up to at night
No that is not cool it's different to watch porn but to sign up post pics of him in my book that's cheating idc about porn but signing up for a phone thing no way
we had just finished having sex I went to bed and he stayed up. now I find out he signed up for some website called snap sext. made a profile and uploaded his pics n everything
Sometimes guys get weirded out by a changing woman's body. My hubby is still attracted to me as well, but he's not as intimate as he used to be. I personally think it's because he's scared of the baby factor. I think men can be completely clueless and freaked out by it.
I think most men do watch porn and they think its totally fine. I dont like it either. Specially when u r pregnant or just had a child. We feel insecure cuz our body had changed a lot from preganncy or giving birth. The last thing we want to hear or see that they would do that. Its gonna make us even more insecure. Men just dont get it. Men are so stupid sometimes.
I know exactly how you feel girl. I found videos on my man's phone and it crushed me I kinda felt like he cheated on me cuz he was getting off to other women's bodies. thinking about them for pleasure. He also apologized and he said he wouldnt any more but it still sucks cuz I'm like I hope he is thinking a bout me when we have sex.@augustmom3,
and it's not like I don't give him sex.. sometimes we have sex 3 and 4 times in one day
he's apologized a million times n said he won't anymore but the damage is done. like ur only sorry cause I caught u. otherwise you'd still be doing it
well he wasn't cuddled up to me at night he was on the porn sites and the fuckbook. I don't mind the porn so much as the making profiles on hookup sites. hell watch porn but don't hide it and be sneaky