i know this isnt pregnancy or mommy related but...was anyone here abused as well? when do the nightmares stop?...

I was, and it honestly took a couple years before I stopped waking up crying or stopped thinking about it or dreaming about horrible things. That may not be any comfort to you because years sounds terrifying in itself, but it does get better with time. I went to counseling and that help A LOT.

I was abused as a kid and in all honesty the dreams never stopped for me they got less frequent but I still have them. I have to agree tho counseling helps out so much

ive tried counseling, just knowing my father might get parole and him continuing to write me has made life almost unbareable the only source of peace and joy is my child and my boyfriend, im sorry you mommies went through similar situations, id never wish this pain on anyone not even my babydaddy:( @palmerwifey @valerie_jean

If he frightens you so much you can get a restraining order on him. I can't stand when people abuse others

i cant..im a minor and he lived with my grandparents (aka the people who have custedy) if he gets out and my bf does hsve a house ill.move out@palmerwifey

I was in my first marriage. Physically and emotionally. When I left him in Mexico and came home I had terrible nightmares and anxiety. I went to church talked to friends. But it wasn't until my bf came along that things changed for the better

he was the only one who would sit up with me on the phone and talk to me no matter the time. we went from friends to bf and gf. best man I've ever had in my life