What the fuck do I do.... my boyfriend payed at&t to put a tracker on my phone to see who I'm…

Confront him! It sounds like he's insecure now since he's cheated on you that you might do the same. Tell him you'll get your own phone if he doesn't take the tracker off. You two are adults & He should treat you as such. Men have no respect for women. If my boyfriend ever did that to me I'd be pissed.

I jus caught mine on some snap sext website.. I feel it pain girl. I wouldn't say anything at all and just mention it in one of ur phone convos that u know he did it but ur acting like u don't know. his conscience will eat at him and he will say something to you.

@iloveyou, @augustmom3 I confronted him and he tried to lie. I brought up all the girls he was talking to and cheating on me with and told him he blocked every male in my phone and I'm just so broken. I literally have never been this depressed.

Why must guys try us as like we won't find stuff out. I beat if you let it be known you'll leave his ass and take your kids he'll straighten up. My bd called himself moving away and getting him a girlfriend he met off facebook. I'm 27 weeks, I politely let his ass go and concentrated on my daughter and finishing this semester of school so I can graduate. Now he want to come back and be a "family." Girl you can do bad by yourself you shouldn't stress behind no man

All I can say is leave him. Plain and simple.

@ladybugmom, thank you so much for that advice. I'm just so depressed.. he left me when I was pregnant with my first daughter saying I cheated, then told me to "abort it" or he would give me an abortion himself. I literally forgave him for everything, then he cheated on me, and got caught and I forgave him and I got pregnant and had a miscarriage September 1st and he said if it was another girl he didn't want it and when I lost the baby I built up a lot of anger, now I'm pregnant again (also 27 weeks!) and this is how he treats me?

I don't know how I should feel anymore.... I feel so broken and stupid.

Don't feel stupid. It's love.. Everyone has been there. Love will make you do some crazy things. But I think you need to step away from the situation and get yourself together. Crying and stressing not only hurts you but it hurts your baby too. And being honest it's not about him or you it's about that baby. And if you have to cry to do it. Cry. But don't settle for being mistreated. You are beautiful and if you will allow it over and over again he will not stop. He will continue to do his dirt and say his hurtful words because he knows you aren't going anymore

he actually cant listen to your conversation

I'm sorry your going through this. This is a abusive relationship though, you need to subtract your daughter and yourself from this. Best of luck.

I definitely think you should cut ties love, he and this relationship are toxic which is the last thing you need by yourself, much less with two girls involved and a baby on the way. Sounds like there's nothing to be done on your part to get him to wake up so just focus on you and your kids and leave him. It'll hurt to start but you'll get through that much better than staying and the BS he's putting you through.

@kismet_carri, he can read my texts, just can't listen to my phone calls.

@ladybugmom, @firefly @arielle he told me that the reason he did it is because he's just crazy. I don't know what to make of that but it definitely makes me uncomfortable....

You deserve better ! Would you want your girls to deal with a man like that or be treated that way? Set an example for them

@ladybugmom, I know.... I just want us as a family. I'm a stay at home mom and he works to support us so really without him I have zero income.

@emilyyy96___, I feel like him saying that is Gods way of telling you to let go. He makes people hurt us until we realize we need a change. Best of luck to you and your girls❤️

@arielle, I don't know what God is telling me. I feel like I love him but I don't want to be controlled anymore.

if it makes u uncomfortable why stay? i see to many females settling for less i dont get it. u cant chise to stay with him then complain. u can leave him u just dnt want to. no one can find that strength to leave u gotta find if for yourself. what he did is a form of control. u really want somebody controlling u like that? more power to you

@missj_stephens, my only problem is I have no where to go. if I was to leave him, I'd be homeless with not a dollar to my name.

u will make a way i promise. same thing happened to me in my last relationship. nowhere to go. but he put his hands on me one time and one time only but thats all it took for me to dip out and leave. i made a way. my mom wouldnt take me in. i moved in with someone from work. yes it was temporary but i made it work. u wouldnt believe it but now im in a great relationship this man treats me like a queen. im so happy now. o will never allow anyone to do what my ex dis to me. i was with him from age 17-23. 6 years.