Tired of unsolicited advice!! Randomly texting me what to pack in my hospital bag? I say I'm anemic and you start spewing out what foods contain lots of iron? I feel like if you're an adult and you have something to prepare for or something to manage, you should take it upon yourself to do it/research it YOURSELF. Nothing wrong with asking for help at all, but that's my personality; I try to figure it out myself before asking for help. I'm a first time mom so I've done no research on how to prepare for delivery and beyond? The doctor tells me in anemic so I'm like, "okay cool" and do nothing to figure out how to increase my iron intake?!? Ugh!! Zip it unless you're asked.