Ugh I am aggravated. I love that my bfs family is as involved in Kailynns life however it's so…

Ugh I am aggravated. I love that my bfs family is as involved in Kailynns life however it's so annoying when people tell me that i need to cancel my daughter's birthday plans for a god damn family picture. His great grandma wants to do a 5th generation picture which is fine, it's awesome actually however we have had it planned for the last 3 weekends. I get that it has snowed however his step mom has taken it apon her self to cancel the plans every weekend.. yet, makes me feel bad that I can't do it tomorrow because I have my sister n laws baby shower at 1 that I am hosting so it's not like I can not show up. they knew about this last weekend.. I told them after the baby shower we can come out no big deal, well then I get a message saying that can't do that because they made plans for tomorrow evening. then turn around and gets pissed at me for not being able to do it next weekend bc of my daughters birthday!! I feel if they want pictures that bad they need to stop canceling shit and get it done.. i shouldn't have to cancel my daughter's birthday plans because people can't be t their shit together!! Sorry for the long rant!! just super annoyed needed to vent!