Ok I need advice so nobody on my side of the family knows I'm pregnant except my best friend I…

I Am Going Through The Same Thing . I Have A Three Year Old And A Two Year Old And I'm 27 Weeks Pregnant With My Third Baby And Barely Anybody On My Side Of My Family (My Mama and Daddy Side ) Knows About It . I Never Told Anybody Because My Family Is Always Quick To Judge Me About Having Babies But The Way I Feel Is You Shouldn't Worry About What Any Of Them Say Because You Are The One Who Has To Take Care Of Your Kids , Not Them ! If They Have Something Bad To Say About It Tell Them Its None Of Their Business How Many Kids You Have Or When You Have Them ! Works For Me ! lol

You should not fear being judged bc they don't have to raise your child for you, feed or clothe your child, nor do they have to push your child out. if they have something negative to say then they dint need to be in your childs life with that negativity and tell them you're not here for that. you don't have time you have children to worry about and if your children aren't wanting it needing for anything then you're doing your job as a mother.

Embrace it babe! Being pregnant is a blessing and something to be happy about! Don't let them get you down!

oh And I'm 19 Years Old So They Quick To Say I'm Having Too Many Children Right Now . I'm Happy About My Children . And TBH Only Thing I Regret Is My First Two Kids Sperm Donors , But My Bf Does A Very Good Job At Being Their FATHER So Therefore We All Happy And That's All That Matters !

thanks ladies it really means a lot my husband and I wanted this baby and it sucks that ppl judge and want u to live your life how they want you to

When your family fully takes care of your children 100% emotionally, physically and financially, then they can judge you. Until then, they can stick their judgements and opinions where the sun don't shine and sit in it and spin on it. Don't allow them to bring you down at a time time when they should be lifting you up. Good on you and your husband for knowing what you want, and that's a family. Learn from this and raise your children to be better than them!