Are there any moms on here that were abandoned by the father and doing this alone or am I the only…

There are a lot

Good to know because I feel like I'm the only one and it's so upsetting. It has literally made everything so much harder.

Best advice I can give u... Forget those who forget u

And lovely those who love u

Kind of hard when he calls me from different numbers just to tell me that he's up to stuff with his new girl. My morning sickness phase ended like the second I hit my second trimester, but he has caused so much stress induced vomiting. I just don't understand who in the world could do this to their own daughter.

Don't pick up a number that u don't recognize. People can be cold hunny. Being a mother now will teach u to be strong for your baby !

And now my child isn't going to have a father. What if she never has a father? I don't want to do this alone. It's terrifying.

@amillar23, you're not alone. I'm still with my boyfriend but he's now in prison for a car accident that happened 3 years ago. But I know the feeling of being alone because I have to go through the rest of my pregnancy, birth and possibly the first 2 years of her life by myself... Just wait for the right man to come along and he'll take care of you and that precious baby you're carrying. & I know it sounds impossible but try not to stress out because it affects your baby too

@kate_magalina, that sounds rough. And I feel so bad for saying this, but I just don't want to be raising her alone and be alone for the rest of my life. Is that a bad thing? Because a lot of my relatives have been making me feel like it is. I mean, yes I am focusing on my daughter and working my butt off and going to doctors appointments. Is it so bad that I don't want to be doing this alone? Is it so bad that I don't want to be single and feel this abandoned for the rest of my life. I just feel like nothing is ever going to get any better. And I am so so sorry that you have to do the pregnancy and first two years on your own.

@amillar23, you could always find a nice loving family that isn't able to have children for her if you honestly feel that you'll be alone... But you won't be single for the rest of your life, someone 100 times better will come along. Everything will get better just take it one day at a time. Just remember that baby girl needs you right now, you're all she has.

not currently but I've been alone with three of my kids. it sucks but you will make it and will come out a much stronger person because your baby depends on you. I think of it as a blessing now because the person who walked out made room for the wonderful man that I have today.