We made the baby shower specifically so his dad to come and now that it's Saturday he informed us that he will "wait a couple weeks" if he comes at all... he treats us like shit and just wants to bitch about everything we are doing wrong.... I'm so sick of him and how he is treating us and Ever already... he barely even showed up for the wedding!

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@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
So upset 😔 baby had the umbilical cord in between it's legs and up it's back, so gender was not visible. Not only that but the person who did the ultrasound told us NOTHING. He didn't show us the screen. He didn't tell us how far along the baby was measuring and he didn't tell us if he saw anything. NOTHING. Not a word left his mouth while we were there. The room was silent the entire time.
this man almost killed us he took a red light and there was a car coming too and if I wouldn't have yelled at him we would have got hit I was so damn scared