I almost want to give my daughter up for adoption..... When I got pregnant, we were able to support us, our animals, and…

hun....your going to get lots of feed back from this post. but I want to say, do what you thinks right for you baby girl and you. ok, just bc you do adoption does not mean you don't love her, it means you know you can't give her what she needs and you love her very much that's why you did it.

but this is something g you need to sit back and think long and hard about. I'll keep you in my prayers.

It's amazing what you're able to do for your children. Before getting pregnant we never had any money but our bills were. Paid. We still have no money and our bills are still paid. No extra money coming in we actually have less comin in but we make it work. You'll figure it out. There's no better place for your baby then in her mamas arms

I don't WANT to do it... I honestly don't even think I could... I have hope that things will get better.... but my husband ISN'T trying.... that's the biggest problem... which stresses me out even more....@18andpregnant, and @californiahaley , that's just it... we CAN'T pay the bills... its either buy food, or pay bills... we get just enough, for one of the other...

have you guys tried to get on with anything like food stamps or welfare. yeah it ducks but you gotta do what you gotta do

Well, I'm on wic. We've tried food stamps, and they need everybody's stuff in the apartment... which is bullshit shit when they aren't even related to me....

@18andpregnant,

it will be OK... we were making money ...then I got pregnant && lost my job.. struggled awhile... things are getting better for us..God won't give you more then you can handle.. this is like a test...once y'all get past this you will be so happy you kept the baby

That's Why I still have hope... because I know if I give her up, I'll regret it for the rest of my life... Because right after I give her up, we'll have money out the ass.. because that's how life works. I guess it's just stress talking... I don't thin I'd even be able to give her up for adoption....

when i was 35 weeks pregnant n knowing how soon she was gonna be born i thought the same thing. my bf is the only one working n his hours were cut bc work got slower. id cry thinking of how i couldnt give my baby up but yet knew she deserved so much more. i called my mom n talked to her n she said when it comes down to it u will always find a way to take care of ur baby. it maybe hard at time n easy at others but u can do it. she also said my hormones r also playing a role in that whole decision-making n to really think hard about it. id support u either way, but really think its something to think extra long n hard about. i kept my baby girl n even tho i dont have extra money to buy her everything or a lot of new items i do always find a way to care for her. i breastfeed so it saves money, i have used baby clothes or babyshower gifts, n i show wen her all the love in the world to keep her happy. i know u can do it too! but like i said either way ill support you!

for my food stamps i said i ate alone n that i only live with one person. i didnt tell them the full truth but it did work

you don't claim the others in the house to get food stamps.

its amazing what just comes to you. somehow I always managed to get everything the baby needed.

yea I agree with @2615mommi2b ..you gotta bend the truth with them... my Husband && I lived together but wasn't married at the time... we needed help me not working so I said I live alone.. they not gonna search your house lol.. do what you need to do to get food girl