Ever feel like a single mother in a committed relationship? Because that's how I've felt every…

me to!!

mine works... I'm like OK so.. your point is I'm already annoyed first few days he helped alot. not even a little now unless I ask or talk crap it's sad

@heather_95, @yesenia5 that's all my boyfriend does is work then comes home & plays video games until bed then sleeps until he has to be out the door for work. I take care of our son, I get no sleep, I cook, clean & at the beginning of next month I go back to work & I know he isn't gonna help. I can't even count on leaving the baby home with him while I work (I work 1st shift he works 2nd) because he never wakes up when he hears the baby crying so I'll have to find someone to take care of him while I work. He acts like his life is so hard when all he does is work & play video games. It really makes me wanna just leave sometimes because I'm basically doing it myself anyways.

I'm sorry love I'm with you I'm sad cuz I can't count on him either I'm thinking I don't trust anyone to watch her as it is I go back March 1st hopefully it gets better for us both 😔or I'll just quit and move back to nm where I know I'll have least some help

I did at some point with my fiance, the only think that knocked him out of it was telling him.

@lulukiddy, I've talked to him about it & he just blows it off. its like it goes in one ear & out the other.

Do you have a person who could stand behind you and say they see it too, and he'll listen to more?

@lulukiddy, No. I mean besides my dad & if my dad joins in he'll just take it as a lecture & tell me I need to stop telling my dad our business. I seriously just wanna move back in with my father because he's given me an out so many times just haven't taken it for our sons sake.

yeah. Maybe if you do "leave" it'd scare him? I know that's mean, but if it scares him.