The Stay-at Home Dad Whether it's the fledgling economy or a simple sign of more modern times, a…
The Stay-at Home Dad
Whether it's the fledgling economy or a simple sign of more modern times, a growing number of men are deciding to stay at home with the kids and let their wives deal with rush hour traffic and casual Fridays. Luckily, we have some survival tips to make those first few months easier.
Be proud of your decision
Although there are more SAHDs out there, that doesn't mean there won't be some people who don't understand the concept of you staying home while your wife goes to the office each day.
Decide on your duties
Before you officially become "stay-at-home dad," you and your wife should sit down to discuss exactly what that title entails.
Figure out what works for you
It's important to establish a daily routine that works for you and the kids -- and don't worry if mom lets you know that isn't the way she would do it.
Build a support system
Isolation is the number one complaint for many stay-at-home parents. After all, you need more than episodes of Sesame Street and endless rounds of peek-a-boo to get you through the day. Search for other SAHDs in your area.
Mingle with moms, too
"It can be intimidating to walk into a playgroup and be the only guy, "But you and your kids need to get out and socialize with different groups of people.
Make time for "me"
It's easy to think your whole world needs to revolve around the kids, but that can lead to some serious burnout. Love to read? Make the time to enjoy a good book while the kids nap.
Ask for Help
Just like women who feel they need to be Superwoman at home, SAHDs can fall into the trap of thinking they need to do it all on their own. But "If you can't get it all done, there's nothing wrong with asking for help.
Take advantage of your status
"A father with a baby screams VIP treatment," says Levin. "A dad with a baby in a stroller is a great way to receive offers to cut into lines, get faster to the cashier at a grocery store.
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