So my fiancé takes me out yesterday so he can go out with his friend tonight and drink. 😑 Said I…
So my fiancé takes me out yesterday so he can go out with his friend tonight and drink. 😑 Said I could come to if I found a babysitter. We get home, and he doesn't even give me a chance to find a baby sitter. They're probably going to end up going to a bar or something. I trust him, but I don't trust these stupid skanks/whores running around here. They'll most likely think he's single(after all, it's Valentine's Day and I'm not going to be with him) and try to seduce him or something. I'm so insecure right now, and I'm scared :( I don't really trust the friend he drinks with when it comes to going to bars and all that anymore. He's married and he acts like he's single when he's at bars drinking. He said he'd help find a babysitter, and I really hope he's trying. I'm just so overwhelmed, scared, and stressed, all I want to do is drink 😢 as bad as that may sound. I feel like I'm overreacting. Then again, I feel like I'm not. It's not fair. I always stay home with the girls while he goes out and has a good time. He feels like he can only handle 1 at a time. So he won't watch both at once. I just feel like he never wants to spend time with me and the girls anymore. He says he loves me, and I know he does, but I just want to spend time with him. /: I honestly think I'm suffering from postpartum depression, and I'm so scared that I'm going to loose him because of it. 😢😢
He's really the only person who keeps me happy anymore. I just feel like he's choosing his friend and beer over us 😢
Am I being unreasonable? Just wanted some opinions. Cause I feel so extremely stupid for getting so upset.
Extremely sorry for the long rant 😓
And I'll probably even regret posting this....
princesswasiq·
В ожидании первенца
Honestly I'd be super pissed
Kristen Rhubart·
I would find a sitter and show up where he is ...
Laura·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I think I'm more upset than pissed off. But good to know I'm not alone. @princesswasiq I don't have anyone to ask :( my parents are working, my sister's going out, his mom and mamaw won't watch both girls at the same time(which I can understand to a point), and his sister won't since she's going to church tomorrow. I don't know who else to ask :( plus, his mom pretty much said that she wouldn't watch them so we could go out(well, if we have plans to drink.) @countrygl7
yesenia5·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm the same way love I'm like hello I'm home all day bored no family here and youd choose to drink but " oh well you can come if u want".is what I get maybe we are exaggerating but I don't think so lol I can't stand the ppl he goes with their drunks but my fault I love and chose him I can only be honest on here lol sry for the long comment
Laura·
Мама двоих (младенец)
No worries. I think it's one of those "you can't have your cake and eat it too things" he loves being a dad and loves us. He wanted this responsibility, but that takes away some freedom. He wants to be dad and all that, but he wants his freedom too. I just feel like he doesn't think(or just doesn't want to) to give that freedom up. If that makes sense. It just sucks cause it makes me feel like I'm just a roadblock in his life 😢
Laura·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@yesenia5
yesenia5·
Мама дочки-младенца
makes perfect sense mine the same way I'm like you can't have both its crazy why can't they think like us @laura_love
Laura·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Ugh, I know. the women have to do everything *rolls eyes* @yesenia5