last night my boyfriend said he rather stay home all day cause all I do is sleep. I don't know where the hell his head…
last night my boyfriend said he rather stay home all day cause all I do is sleep. I don't know where the hell his head is. he told me "and you get to sleep in every morning". No, I have never in my life had help in the morning or at night from him. I get up and get her breakfast first thing in the morning, change her, clean her up, then after being up for a couple hours she takes a quick morning nap (which I don't do because once I'm awake I can't go back to sleep till night) so I usually pick up our room, do some laundry, fold clothes, vacuum, go through paperwork, schedule appointments, make bows/tutus so I can sell them, etc.
I never get time to myself and since my daughter has been born I've taken 2 showers by myself and one was at the hospital after I had her because he doesn't want to watch her. But he comes home from work, takes a 2-3 hour nap, I make him dinner, fix him a plate, make my plate, deal with paisley, give her a bath, put cartoons on, take his plate and clear the table, then go put the baby to bed and then I can finally eat at like 11 at night. it's totally unfair and I wish he could see what I do.... but no he thinks I sit on my ass all day which I wish I could do since I'm pregnant and miserable all day.
just wish I was good enough for someone.
sorry for the long post, and thanks for reading ladies. I needed to get that off my chest.
rant over.
kayla·
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Guys just can't see all that we do they see what they want to an mostly everything's about them.. I'm sorry though we all go through this! An you are a strong women! An God bless you for that! This must be why men don't have baby's they wouldn't be able to handle it! I mean look all that you do! I'd say your a supermom/women that's awesome in my book!
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
@kmrie, thank you so much you don't know how much that means to me. I guess your right about guys not seeing it. I wish they could at least act like they appreciate it. makes me sad when he says stuff like that. I'm trying to stay off his ass cause apparently he has something planned for my birthday/ valentine's day and he won't tell me what it involves lol. but I love him just wish I had more help or at least a thank you every once in a while would be nice.
Alhy Berry·
Мама дочки-младенца
You are a super mom and it's a shame that he can't see how special u are. Being pregnant and doing all that! U should talk to him about it.
kayla·
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Your so welcome! Maybe you two should sit down some time an talk just explain all that you do an he doesn't see it like what you pretty much wrote here how all these little details that you do adds up an even though your home that doesn't mean your bein lazy or relaxing being a mother is a full time job plus you take care of him aswell sometimes ppl don't realize what they got till it's gone now I hope that doesn't happen but guys need there eyes opened somtimes or just like if you stoped doing certion things I bet it would get his attention then he'd ask why'd you stop doing this or that an it's like well thought I don't do anything.... Lol
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
@kmrie, good idea! I'll probably try that lol @alhynele I definitely am :)
kayla·
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Maybe it'll help him realize all you do an appreciate you more an maybe even help out more!
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
I hope so lol! @kmrie
kayla·
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Good luck!